DO HER

DO HER

.

DO HER

 

of course someone was gonna say that soon enough

DO HER

of course someone was gonna say that soon enough

 

 

exactly- LIKE I DID ALREADY ?:dozey:

DO HER!!!!

What Nick said, basically. :\

I've made similar drunken mistakes, but I also don't have a family. Plus, I was drunk beyond the point where I still had a thought process.

 

Regardless... pretend it didn't happen. Better for everyone.

Wonder if he's doing her right now.

Quit imagining me having sex Reilly.

OK, so last night I was at my best friends Dad's gig. All his family were there. A guy walks in who his Mum had an affair with ten years ago (the family are over this and everything has been forgiven but he keeps turning up and being a nuisance). It was my job to keep him away from my friends family, which basically meant staring him out from the other side of the bar and following him for about half an hour, then going up to him and asking him to leave (which surprisingly worked).

 

Anyway, after the gig my friends Dad came up to me and thanked me for getting rid of him. Then later I saw his Mum and she thanked me too for keeping him away. She gave me a New Years kiss on the cheek which was nothing unusual, but then she lent in closed her eyes and went to make out with me. I pulled away and said something like 'no no no no, you're my best friends Mum'. Later on the dance floor when everyone was cheering New Year I asked her if she was OK and what that was all about. She just said 'Oh sorry, it's OK though'.

 

I saw her this morning since I stopped over at the house and she acted normal, like she would have done had nothing happened. She is like a second Mother to me and I see her all the time and talk to her, and she helps me whenever there is something I can't talk to my parents about. She is an attractive woman in her 40's but looks like she is in her mid 30's. I've never thought about her in a sexual way and I never will, but this has really fucked with my head.

 

I don't know whether to say something to my friend or not. I'm leaning towards saying nothing because this could potentially fuck things up for their family since she has a history. I think I just need to talk about it somewhere so I'll make this thread.

 

Man my head is fucked.

 

Personally, I think what you have with the family and the best friend is a good thing and you wouldn't want to wreck it. Talking about it to other people should help you understand it without it getting back to anyone that knows this family, so when you have worked it all out you should be able to forget about it. I think that she has put you in a horrible position and it was selfish of her to do so! Maybe just talk to her about it while noones around but let her know that you're not going to say anything to anyone incase she feels threatened.

 

Good luck! I think you are a good person, some people wouldn't even think twice!

you should take into account that she was most probably drunk and somewhat unaware of what she was doing that night . So just try to forget about that stupid fact.

 

 

Wonder if he's doing her right now.

 

 

:laugh3::laugh3::laugh3: AHAHHAHAHHHAH

 

Well yeah forget about it. Don't talk to her about it cause if she was drunk she could even forgot that she did that, so if you talk to her about it well, that might be AWKWARD. Besides, you're not attracted to her or something so screw it. Just be careful of he times when you'll be at your friends house and she suprise you only in a towel ; O

oh man that sucks, Greg.

 

I think the best advice is that you shall forget about it. She was drunk and people do fucked up things when they're drunk esp. when there is something bothering them I guess. This stuff happens so often in my area....and people gossip a lot about it....and in the end it was just 2 people being drunk and fucked up (oh and I am not talking about 2 people my age here who are single or something...I am talking about married men and girls my age or married women [my neighbour, in her 50s] and 18 year old guys.....or a girl my age and her boss who is married as well)...your situation is more awkward though since she is your best friend's mum......

So, I am glad you are well-minded enough to have refused it.

Forgetting about it is the best thing to do since it didn't mean anything to you and I am pretty sure (though not 100% sure since I don't know that woman) it didn't mean anything to her....and if it did mean something to her she might mention it again or try it again which might be the worst thing.

 

It is super super awkward. But if you don't think too much about it anymore the awkwardness might slowly disappear.

 

So, yeah that's my advice to give when it comes to the situation between you and his mum.

 

I think the thing that is more difficult is whether you should tell your friend or not. Spontaneously I'd say you should, because he might get annoyed if he finds out that you didn't tell him esp. since he is your best friend and honesty is a very important thing.

When I think about it further it is right to think about that twice since it could fuck up the family's situation...

 

For now it might be the best thing just to keep it for you. Maybe you'll be able to tell him in a while....when everything feels less awkward.

Can you at least imagine how he'd react if you told him?

 

You're a good and logical thinking person, so I am sure you'll make the right decision.... :hug:

If he doesn't do her soon then I'm gonna.

Mean like you'll do her?

Or him, somebody, anybody, damn these cold winter nights.

Fuck just because you don't have "sex" in your profile, I thought you are a woman, that's why i was surprised. Fucking facepalm. I'm sorry. But please do her.

awwwwwwwww Treilly the girl:blush:

 

too bad you can't be one of my fav boys on here now

Haha why so sorry? No biggie.

Oh right, I bet that you would play with your ti... yhm, if you were :uhoh:

Tits? Wut

Haha why so sorry? No biggie.

 

You've had a sex change?:wink3:.

If he doesn't just shutup and do her then i'm gonna.