LoryABjerre Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Discuss :thinking: 1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them! 2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone. 3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. 4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're going to say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes. 5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile when they’re attracted to them 6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him. 7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method. 8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to. 9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved. 10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend. 11. Guys get jealous easily. 12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think. 13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out. 14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. 15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway. 16. Girls are guys' weaknesses. 17. Guys are very open about themselves. 18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long. 19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend. 20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. 21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. 22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships. 23. Guys will brag about anything. 24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot. 25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant. 26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused. 27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships. 28. Try to be as straightforward as possible. 29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up. 30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl. 31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key. 32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience. 33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped. 34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside. 35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that. 36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me." 37. Guys don't really have final decisions. 38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up. 39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you. 40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something. 41. Guys like femininity not feebleness. 42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do. 43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes. 44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily. 45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much. 46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys. 47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more. 48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them. 49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day. 50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it. 51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of us. 52. We don't like girls who are too skinny. 53. We love it when girls talk about there ass. 54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy , like whether it's a one time deal or not . 55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to. It may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unnoticeable tell them about yours. 56. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually. 57. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs. 58. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it, it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts. 59. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that after you let him know a couple times. 60. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I am offended! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
86Timewarp Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 :blank: 60 is what ended my relationship. It wasn't that I wasn't staying up with her, but she was one of those night people and I couldn't keep up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tash Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 You forgot one Lory! 61. Guys like hens of luxury Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a_face_of_light Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Wow guys are needy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batman Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 You forgot one Lory! 61. Guys like hens of luxury :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoryABjerre Posted March 16, 2012 Author Share Posted March 16, 2012 this is a good thread of discussion between girls & boys and what you think of this answers, it was on a site "60 things girls need know about guys" I found it interesting, but not know this answers is true I am a girl for my part I do not know, I never had romantic relationships, nor boyfriend, in the past and the present. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 You forgot one Lory! 61. Guys like hens of luxury I prefer horror eggs walking but whateverrr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crests Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 lol what did i just read Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoryABjerre Posted March 16, 2012 Author Share Posted March 16, 2012 Wow guys are needy. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Are_from_Mars,_Women_Are_from_Venus I do not know who made these answers, if a study like Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coldplay Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 17. Guys are very open about themselves. 12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think. 36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me." 39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you. 42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do. 50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it. hmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I can handle all my problems on my own Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tnspieler1012 Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Lory offends me. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 i want to be with you be with you niight and daay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoryABjerre Posted March 16, 2012 Author Share Posted March 16, 2012 Lory offends me. :( offended by what? is a thread of girls and boys in real life. who have relationships in real life. :| Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
86Timewarp Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 It's not like every boy has all and only those 60 qualities. :blank: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kiame Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I hate these stupid lists so much. It's written by some angsty fucking drop kick of a teenager who thinks he will "enlighten" everyone. Half of them contradict each other, the other half are huge generalisations. I can't stand this belief that men and women are like two completely different puzzles with little codes and secrets to break them. There aren't any "rules" or "secrets" or "lists" about how to understand anyone, and these stupid lists only prolong the idea that men and women are "alien" from one another. I hate that idea, because they fucking aren't. The only thing that makes them seem like that are the douchebags who read these lists. People are different from one another as individuals. I know some girls who qualify for most of the shit on that list, just like I know some guys who don't even qualify for one. The day I stop seeing these stupid lists is the day people get over themselves and actually judge others as human beings. Sick of it. /rant Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Kiame you should make a list about people who make stupid lists Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I hate these stupid lists so much. It's written by some angsty fucking drop kick of a teenager who thinks he will "enlighten" everyone. Half of them contradict each other, the other half are huge generalisations. I can't stand this belief that men and women are like two completely different puzzles with little codes and secrets to break them. There aren't any "rules" or "secrets" or "lists" about how to understand anyone, and these stupid lists only prolong the idea that men and women are "alien" from one another. I hate that idea, because they fucking aren't. The only thing that makes them seem like that are the douchebags who read these lists. People are different from one another as individuals. I know some girls who qualify for most of the shit on that list, just like I know some guys who don't even qualify for one. The day I stop seeing these stupid lists is the day people get over themselves and actually judge others as human beings. Sick of it. /rant I like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoryABjerre Posted March 16, 2012 Author Share Posted March 16, 2012 each person has their own experience of a romantic relationship and experiance in life to make their own comments and give answers because each has its own character for successful relationship or not. Relationship in my own life : I have nobody, and nobody cares now. but I had relationships but the men I met in marriges agency, did not loved me and was me who gave everything and loved man and to make me loved by man one day. so naive, much submissive, when I love I will give everything to a man who really loves me. love is a gift. So this answers were not much sense in my life I have not had real relationships. since I was little I always had this song in my head and it's honest my favorite singer of the 80s I sang this song so much in crying in my childhood and Lory is just my nickname. [ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qAss_4l2_gM&feature=related]Lory ( Bonnie ) Bianco - If I once fall in Love - HQ - YouTube[/ame] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kiame Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Lory you need to speak to a psychologist. You need someone to help you. Book an appointment with a doctor and tell him/her that you'd like to see a psychologist and they'll refer you to one. The way you are feeling isn't permanent and you can work to fix it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoryABjerre Posted March 16, 2012 Author Share Posted March 16, 2012 people in my life to be change not me and I go to a psy like many. and the only thing he told me it was the day I find someone who love me when the whole life will change and be happy. but I live in Switzerland not in a Latin country. People in bars not speak much and is the bar to meet the singles. http://www.coldplaying.com/forum/showthread.php?t=92108 I am open to meeting in real life :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I think, Lory, if you had a better attitude maybe your problems will fade. I think a lot of people are attracted to great personalities, outgoing people and optimism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tnspieler1012 Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 and the only thing he told me it was the day I find someone who love me when the whole life will change and be happy. oh? really? :rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoryABjerre Posted March 16, 2012 Author Share Posted March 16, 2012 yes if a man normal is interested in my real life. but I have no beauty outside as feminine women. men in my life are not interested. they do not like woman in social case almost the homeless tramp and tomboy. (80% of attraction with the eyes and the physical and this is the first communication between men and women) men are interested in women who are feminine and have a social stable and are well integrated into society. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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