thanks for your opinion alyssa!! going to talk to him tomorrow about this and see what he has to say. he is very enthusiastic about the piano and he loves his piano teacher. but he doesn't talk about it all the time or anything - it is just a fun thing for him to do. he doesn't realize that it is unusual that he plays so well, he thinks it is a normal thing.

hi everyone!!!can i participate here? :)

Christiana, wow, that's a hard decision to take...I think you should listen to your heart because you seem to be a very good mother and I'm sure that your son will understand your decision in the future... ;)

you certainly are welcome here li!! and thank you for the nice words :) .

thank you!you demonstrate that your son is the most precious person to you...that's so adorable!hope you get the better choice and whatever is your choice i'm sure it will be fine!

i appreciate that. it is just so hard to know what is best and not be selfish about just wanting him to be my baby for a bit longer :/ .

yeah, i can understand that... :) being mom is hard thought, isn't it?moms are always wanting the best for their children even if it costs to much...sometimes I have the feeling that my mom thinks I'm still a baby...mothers' love... :)

it IS hard!! you have this little person that is totally dependent on YOU to make them into a good human being - so much pressure. and where my husband passed away, it makes it that much harder because i don't have someone to share the responsibility with. thank God i have great parents and brothers... or i would probably go crazy. :)

oh, Christi, I'm sorry fot that... :/ it should be very hard...my family and my friends are the most important things in my life...I love them so much!thank God I have them to take care of me... :)

I've gotta go now Christi...bye!it was nice talinkg to you! :kiss:

nice talking to you too!! :D

Holy Cow! i didnt know you had a baby Christi, and i'm so sorry about your husband :(

 

Hope things get better soon and good luck :kiss:

thanks ren. we are doing really well. i just need to figure out what to do with my little prodigy :) . at the age of 4, i thought i would be checking out preschools, not planning his life as a musical genius... life is strange :o

it IS hard!! you have this little person that is totally dependent on YOU to make them into a good human being - so much pressure. and where my husband passed away' date=' it makes it that much harder because i don't have someone to share the responsibility with. thank God i have great parents and brothers... or i would probably go crazy. :)[/quote']

 

I dont know you but let me tell you something...that kind of situations are a proof for how strong are us at the moment to confront the problems...im really sorry and i know with your family help you're gonna be a succesfull person for you and your baby....you deserve the best...CHEERS

I'm sure you'll take the right decision for him and hey but him a guitar ,i wish my parents had given me a guitar when i was a kiddo instead of all those toys that i only played once and then i got bored. :P

I'm off, hope i didnt scare ya with all the albie comments and with the random piccies :P

 

See ya Christi :kiss:

 

ps, if you have anightmares, blame albie's boobs for that :stunned:

eric - how did the interview go today??

hi christi! u there???

holy moly, that was weird... lol

eric - how did the interview go today??

yep, I think it went pretty well. I won't find out till monday or tomorrow about it because I had some sort of phone test thing I had to take and she won't get the results for a little while. But based on the conversation it was a great interview. I usually get worried about those phone tests, they really aren't a good way of making an assesment about me.

 

How have you been holding up?

i am sure you did great!! :) i am just fine... today has thankfully been uneventful. had a brief meeting at work this morning, then have been home all day.

That is great, you must have enjoyed having your family at your house. Are they still there?

youngest bro was at school all day... then the other had a car show to go to tonight. those two are so rowdy!! but they are fun to have around.

That's good. I think it might be my turn to ask for some advice, but I don't really know how to ask whatever it is I probably should ask.

well you have my attention... :stunned:

well I just feel worthless as I have only 2 classes right now and... I don't know if I want to pour out on the message board...