Ch-ch-changes...

 

Simple question; how do you embrace changes in your life?

 

Do you become nostalgic and sad? Excited? Usually there is a distinct moment that you know there has been a big change in your life. For example when I was 14, and seeing my bare and empty living room after it had been filled with crap and ornaments for 6 years, as my family moved home. Or throwing out my junior school tie at the age of 16, etc. etc.

 

At those moments, I always get nostalgic, its pretty gay. Yeah, gay.

 

But moving to university and a new country recently, it never really hit me at all. The closest thing was waking up on the day I was leaving and going to reach for the alarm clock Ive had since I was 5, and realising its in a suitcase. Pretty dumb, yeah, dumb.

 

Gay.

New country?? :huh:

Yeah, Ireland (Or Northern Ireland), to England. New country.

Whereabouts in England??

^ likewise :huh:

 

I always get nostalgic

that's just natural, you sound really sad not gay (sori sounds like a pun but it isnt)

too slow :rolleyes:

Ch-ch-changes...

 

Simple question; how do you embrace changes in your life?

 

Do you become nostalgic and sad? Excited?

 

 

If I think it is a positive I become excited excited first. But when it really comes to it, I mean like a day before it happens I often start to worry and especially see the negative aspects of it. But I often seem to forget those at the moment it really happens and become excited again.

dude, you're sooooo ghey.

 

 

 

I hate change for most of part, but some days I wish I could just pick up everything and disappear.

 

*cue x-files music* :worried2: :tongue:

I like change, but miss certain things that have changed.....I usually moan about these things.. :rolleyes: :lol:

Everybody has to face the change specially when the decision of change was made by you!!! i think at the beggining i would feel nostalgic, but then i just get to use it

Ch-ch-changes...

 

Simple question; how do you embrace changes in your life?

 

Do you become nostalgic and sad? Excited? Usually there is a distinct moment that you know there has been a big change in your life. For example when I was 14, and seeing my bare and empty living room after it had been filled with crap and ornaments for 6 years, as my family moved home. Or throwing out my junior school tie at the age of 16, etc. etc.

 

At those moments, I always get nostalgic, its pretty gay. Yeah, gay.

 

But moving to university and a new country recently, it never really hit me at all. The closest thing was waking up on the day I was leaving and going to reach for the alarm clock Ive had since I was 5, and realising its in a suitcase. Pretty dumb, yeah, dumb.

 

Gay.

 

Your change is a bittersweet change...those are the good ones :wink: The bad changes are the ones that come to you without a warning and in a second, those are the ones that force you to change..

 

How do I deal with changes? I'd like to think that I deal with them well...but it can be hard to just let go and forget or not forget..it depends.. :)

Ch-ch-changes...

 

Simple question; how do you embrace changes in your life?

 

Do you become nostalgic and sad? Excited? Usually there is a distinct moment that you know there has been a big change in your life. For example when I was 14, and seeing my bare and empty living room after it had been filled with crap and ornaments for 6 years, as my family moved home. Or throwing out my junior school tie at the age of 16, etc. etc.

 

At those moments, I always get nostalgic, its pretty gay. Yeah, gay.

 

But moving to university and a new country recently, it never really hit me at all. The closest thing was waking up on the day I was leaving and going to reach for the alarm clock Ive had since I was 5, and realising its in a suitcase. Pretty dumb, yeah, dumb.

 

Gay.

 

 

 

Take all the good memories and lock them inside you, take all the bad, squeeze out experience out of it, and throw the rest away.

 

Your best years are ahead of you so snap out of it. Live life stress free and acknowledge the people that got you where you are now. Another words....

 

Get over it and drink a beer

 

 

 

Your replies are very focussed on me. By the way, I have drunk beer, and yes, I am over it.

 

I was just curious as to how others adapt to change. There are those people who just seem to get on with life without even thinking about it, growing older without taking the time to acknowledge it. I think its healthy to just analyse your life, now and then. Nostalgia is good, otherwise, every experience we have is pretty pointless.

 

And by the way, I didnt mean Bad or Good changes, just, adapting to a new way of living, moving house, finishing high school, etc.

Nostalgia is evil, retro on the hand is good.

IMHO

Your replies are very focussed on me. By the way, I have drunk beer, and yes, I am over it.

 

I was just curious as to how others adapt to change. There are those people who just seem to get on with life without even thinking about it, growing older without taking the time to acknowledge it. I think its healthy to just analyse your life, now and then. Nostalgia is good, otherwise, every experience we have is pretty pointless.

 

And by the way, I didnt mean Bad or Good changes, just, adapting to a new way of living, moving house, finishing high school, etc.

 

Making new friends in the area.

 

Friends..good friends that is what makes the world go round. But a hot blonde that likes sports does the trick nicely as well.

Was the last part for me? 'cause I did say how I deal with changes... :P I was just pointing out the good ones and the bad ones...

If the change is good I'm glad

If the change is bad I'm sad

 

Oh I'm so poetic :cool:

Was the last part for me?

 

No

I hate change for most of part, but some days I wish I could just pick up everything and disappear.

 

*cue x-files music* :worried2: :tongue:

 

Same here. But then again, I get so used to change that I need a shake-up every once in awhile, or else I fall into a rut. A nice change is invigourating but if it's a bad change, I tend to cope badly... the world just seems to fall apart, even if it's just a small thing that has to change