This thread is somewhat outdated. :laugh3: We're nearly in 2010.

Sure, but some people are still waiting for marriage... at least that's what they say :P

As for me, it sounds odd to wait up to marriage as at the last century.:dozey:

Sure, but some people are still waiting for marriage... at least that's what they say :P

i remember she also said (joined) that thingie :rolleyes:

 

As for me, it sounds odd to wait up to marriage as at the last century.:dozey:

so right that, but is OK for the ones they still "believe" in that, although today is hard to know if they do believe in it, or just are following the current fashion.... (which is just the opposite extreme too :uhoh: )

 

i better not say all my thought about it all... :escaping:

:P

Sure, you better escape now :D

i wait

marriage is like a symbol for me, it is the beginning of everything so i won't spoil that moment in having sex before my marriage

^Beautiful thoughts. ;)

 

However for me marriage is such a thing which i dont wait at all. Its not about sex or smth.

:lol: i like the "too late" option given there.

 

btw have you been abducted by JB or something MrCoolNick? :anxious:

 

edit: Viri, i've heard some people even get married when they are 15 or so... and is legal thing. :uhoh:

 

hahahaha no.

This thread is somewhat outdated. :laugh3: We're nearly in 2010.

 

I totally agree. Marriage has no real relevance in 21st century society.;)

Yes, lets all fuck in the bushes.

Yes, lets all fuck in the bushes.

 

Don't see what that has to do with this topic. People can do that whether they're married or not.:dozey:

Don't see what that has to do with this topic. People can do that whether they're married or not.:dozey:

 

That's crazy talk.

That's crazy talk.

 

No, it's fact. Your comment was crazy.:dozey:

You're out of control Mark.

no one has morals anymore :(

no one has morals anymore :(

 

Because nobody's getting married?:confused:

ugh, must i explain everything?

 

 

because nobody waits for marriage ¬¬

How is sex (before marriage) immoral?

 

I suppose you would say a husband can't rape his wife too?

What Viri and Julia said... waiting for love.

 

Yes, lets all fuck in the bushes.

 

hahahahaha.

How is sex (before marriage) immoral?

 

I suppose you would say a husband can't rape his wife too?

because i think that when you marry you comit to the person,

and most likely you'll ( or you should anyways ) stay with them the rest of your life..

 

when you do it with someone that you're not ready to commit to..

even if at the moment you might love each, relashionships end,

 

when you love someone, you marry them, stay with them.. and be intimite with them.

most people do it out of marriage with so many people that they don't really even have feelings for..

because of it has become more of a everyday thing than a personal, intimite moment..

because i think that when you marry you comit to the person,

and most likely you'll ( or you should anyways ) stay with them the rest of your life..

 

when you do it with someone that you're not ready to commit to..

even if at the moment you might love each, relashionships end,

 

when you love someone, you marry them, stay with them.. and be intimite with them.

most people do it out of marriage with an so many people that they don't really even have feelings for..

because of it has become more of a everyday thing than a personal, intimite moment..

 

Sex is completely different to love though. Sex is your bodies physical desires, love is not that. If you are saying love = sex, then not only is that really sad, but it's also incorrect and naive. You can want to have sex with someone but not love them, that is physical attraction. Love is something much deeper than that and "saving" sex for that is putting sex on a pedestal it doesn't deserve to be on, it's not more "special" if you do "save" it for someone and it certainly doesn't make you less likely to fall in love and have a romantic life if you have had sex before marriage, where do you go to school? Catholic school?

that is what i meean, people don't expect to love anymore to have sex,

they just do it as a phisical desire.. bodies just become sexual desires.

what i'm saying is that i would like people having sex for love not for lust..

and no, i finished school, public school..

but i'm catholic, yes.

first of all, too late :laugh3:

second of all, i don't even know if i will ever get married - i think you can actually stay together with a person you love for your whole life, without being married. but who knows.

but yeah, taking that into account, i'd probably would have to wait until i'm 35 or sth, heh.

 

i do understand why many people say they wait, tho :)

that is what i meean, people don't expect to love anymore to have sex,

they just do it as a phisical desire.. bodies just become sexual desires.

what i'm saying is that i would like people having sex for love not for lust..

 

That's not what you just said though. I don't really care if people have sex when they aren't "in love" because it's not linked to love, so what does it matter if they have sex? It's not like they are betraying love by having sex with someone.

 

Define love. You can't, which means your argument makes no sense anyway.