I will wait, only because I feel like it will be more meaningful to do it with the person that you love and loves you.

 

 

that doesn't require being married, though..

 

 

 

Eh baby girl, what you doing tonight?:wink3:

 

Now that sounds creepy............................ :rolleyes:

Now that sounds creepy............................ :rolleyes:

 

Says the old man who writes me poetry.:rolleyes:

You really need to get that paranoia of yours sorted out.:dozey:

If you love him everything should be fine :nice:

 

But you could have some surprises... like... find out that your husband is a woman haha :D

 

:o :uhoh: :sick:

Too late.waiting for marrige is for idealistic/religious people.

The love poems you keep sending me are getting creepy.

 

 

 

Eh baby girl, what you doing tonight?:wink3:

 

I said nice! not sweet talk:P

Too late.waiting for marrige is for idealistic/religious people.

 

Definitely. It's a huge gamble too, as there are no guarantees that waiting that long will have been worthwhile. Anybody who thinks they will live in wedded bliss for eternity is living in cloud cuckoo land.:dozey:

I said nice! not sweet talk:P

 

Sweet? That's about as sweet as sour cream!:lol:

I think this is when love comes in. I feel that once you love each other, you will be willing to accept each other's weaknesses. I agree with people who said that sex is not equal to love. Love is way beyond sex. I feel that if everyone is choosing someone solely on the basis of their sexual ability, then people who do not have good sexual drive (or whatever you call it) will end up being alone. That's my humble opinion :wink:

 

However just to make it clear, I'm not judging people who leave their partner because they're not sexually compatible. I have to admit that eventhough sex does not equal to love, it plays quite a big role in a relationship.

 

But don't you think it would be better if you at least knew about it so you could make an active decision? Because let's be honest here, it is a big deal.

 

Also just because you aren't sexually compatible with someone doesn't necessarily mean that they're bad in bed.

I said nice! not sweet talk:P

 

This is hard, you're too much work!

i didn't abort because i don't blame the child for what happen to me..

Aww I see, you can see things like this...

Though at the beginning the "child" is just a heap of cells, that's what I think :nice:

 

Eh baby girl, what you doing tonight?:wink3:

Run.... NOW ! :uhoh:

 

:o :uhoh: :sick:

Haha sorry ^^

 

Too late.waiting for marrige is for idealistic/religious people.

+1

Anyway I still respect their opinions, I just think it's hard to resist if you found someone you love :wink:

that doesn't require being married, though..

 

For me it does.

 

But don't you think it would be better if you at least knew about it so you could make an active decision? Because let's be honest here, it is a big deal.

 

Also just because you aren't sexually compatible with someone doesn't necessarily mean that they're bad in bed.

 

Nah, I'm willing to be 'surprised'.If I'm willing to marry that person, that means that we're compatible with most of other important aspects. Not sexually compatible won't make me dump someone, or at least I hope it won't.

 

And yes you're right, it doesn't necessarily mean someone is bad in bed. Maybe we just want different things. But whatever it is I hope my future partner and I will figure out a way to make it fun for both sides :P

 

As you can see, I'm quite conservative.

:uhoh:

 

...I don't know if I should be saying this

 

But toooooo late :wacko:

 

Hey at least I waited for someone special :P

That's already something :lol:

 

Funny how 12 people voted yes and 12 voted too late ^^

Well, we've been together 7 months now, I can hardly say it was a bad decision.

 

(edited because I thought this was a bugged post, apparently not)

Anyway that's not a "decision" imo, that just happens :lol:

haha, my friend.. how fast you are to judge see? you don't understand my reason behind any of this.

i had sex, and plenty of it..

i'm actually pregnant now, with a child that did not come from love..

it comes from how a boy did not value the importance of sex, and how you should love the person to give this intimacy away, for him it was just something to do because he needed to fill that sexual desire.. so please. dont assume things just because you think i don't know what i'm talking about.. not all of us are as naive as you might come to believe because we stan up for something that maybe we might know a little too much about..

at least you loved that guy?.

and so he is not going to be a MAN and get in charge of the kid? (or you don't want him do so?).

 

my religion has nothing to do with the poor choices i made,

my religion didn't force some boy to take advange of me..

 

and i do thank God, cuz this kid is a miracle, any kid is, it might hurt me, but i'm not blaming him/her for it.. i blame society and how sex has no value anymore, no respect, nothing, its just a thing people do.

the way we've been grown up make us have one values and morals than others, plus personal experience; anyways every person is different even if grown up the same way and have experienced the same stuff.

 

is not sex and society, the thing is when a couple start just for sex. A relationship is much more than just sex, it involves a lot of things.

 

as i've said, to me is OK both decitions (back on topic), as long as people are responsable and coherent with their life decitions.

 

btw keep me updated about the miracle :baby:

For me it does.

 

 

you think you can't fall in love unless you're married?

I'd like to be

under the sea

in an Octopus's Garden

WITH YOU.

Anyway that's not a "decision" imo, that just happens :lol:

 

Not really, I kinda knew it might, it seemed pretty serious from the start.

There are still fun things you can do before marriage to show your "sexual compatibility".

Everybody I know keeps saying they want to wait till Marriage. When's Marriage? I don't see it on the calendars I buy and it's getting frustrating. Is this some kind of inside joke?

 

 

I know I'm a little late in saying this, but what you said is probably one of the best things I've seen in a while.

Definitely. It's a huge gamble too, as there are no guarantees that waiting that long will have been worthwhile. Anybody who thinks they will live in wedded bliss for eternity is living in cloud cuckoo land.:dozey:

 

I agree, it's a complete waste of time, you might as well get sex out of the way quite early in relationship in my opinion.

I agree, it's a complete waste of time, you might as well get sex out of the way quite early in relationship in my opinion.

 

:cool: