Violet Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 Don't you find it super annoying when you find a super amazing guy who you'd be more than willing to date, only to discover that he's gay? This is not to say that I don't have a good gaydar or anything. My gaydar is actually quite good. I just like to give people the benefit of a doubt. Y'know, straight until proven gay. But yeah. Why do the really nice ones have to be gay? I don't understand. :bigcry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NumbersGirl Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 :nod: NPH Okay that's not a realistically attainable example, but yeah I know what you mean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Empily Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 I can imagine that would suck :nod: My bf is bisexual... and I didn't see that coming :thinking: curse you gaydar </3 Edit: That makes me sound like I don't like bisexual people xD I'm all for it br0s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 Yep. Anderson Cooper. Oh, well. A girl can dream. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megalomania Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 Never had that happen, but I'd imagine that would be very disappointing. :sad: (not in the "ugh they're gay" way (go gay people woot woot) but more in the surprise sort of thing) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busybeeburns Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 I can imagine that would suck :nod: I see what you did there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destrokk Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 :nod: NPH Okay that's not a realistically attainable example, but yeah I know what you mean. ^1+ :nod: That's never happened to me though. Actually I don't like the gay types :uhoh: I think i said this wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lore Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 IT IS ANNOYING :blank: But well, gay or not I have terrible luck and I'll probably be rejected so it doesn't matter :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destrokk Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 THAT IS NOT TRUE LORE, you are gorgeous :botoxlips: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Violet Posted August 28, 2011 Author Share Posted August 28, 2011 Yep. Anderson Cooper. Oh, well. A girl can dream. ...Wait. Anderson Cooper is gay? WHAT THE HELL. :bigcry: Never had that happen, but I'd imagine that would be very disappointing. :sad: (not in the "ugh they're gay" way (go gay people woot woot) but more in the surprise sort of thing) Good. Keep it that way. It's a very awkward place to be. IT IS ANNOYING :blank: But well, gay or not I have terrible luck and I'll probably be rejected so it doesn't matter :lol: Yeah. :disappointed: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lore Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 THAT IS NOT TRUE LORE, you are gorgeous :botoxlips: :lol: lol thanks but well, guys don't think that around here :wacky: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tash Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 My gaydar is awesome, I never had that problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoryABjerre Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 http://coldplaying.com/forum/showthread.php?p=4918714 this man swiss of 1.93 supermodel man who was with me before was gay did not know he was gay. and not respect me and insults all the girls, him saw. and loved George Michael and depeche mode. is maybe a parody of my ex man swiss who love money the perfection son of mother and love just the postitutes :thinking: it's a shame him took me to be bitch......... :angry: [ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=diYAc7gB-0A&ob=av2e]George Michael - Freedom! '90 - YouTube[/ame] [ame] [/ame] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EmmaLouiseSmyth Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 I'd have a good enough gaydar too with guys...not so much with girls. I think it's funny when you have to tell your parents that they are gay. I came home the other morning and told my mom that my friend said I looked gorgeous. She gave me this look, so I was like just so you know he's gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djibou Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 I'm okay with nice girls being gay :blank:. As to boys, well I never fell in love with a gay guy, but I understand that must be frustrating. :/ Better give up your crush as soon as you are able to. My bestfriend/roommate is gay and a few straight girls have had crushes on him. He felt bad for them, but there was absolutely no chance that he would attempt something with them, no matter how great/pretty they were. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Petit Prince Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 This never happened to me. I can understand that it's frustrating but I think it's worse if you like someone and they're straight and single but they just aren't interested in you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Imke Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 I've never had that problem ... and I've also never had a girl hitting on me ... I feel like I've missed out in life. :disappointed: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i'maveryneatMonster.' Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 Eh, I've liked gay men but it wasn't really frustrating, more than anything I've felt like an idiot for not realising and even worse if I happened to actually flirt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 Never happened to me so I wouldn't know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Violet Posted August 29, 2011 Author Share Posted August 29, 2011 As to boys, well I never fell in love with a gay guy, but I understand that must be frustrating. :/ Better give up your crush as soon as you are able to. My bestfriend/roommate is gay and a few straight girls have had crushes on him. He felt bad for them, but there was absolutely no chance that he would attempt something with them, no matter how great/pretty they were. Oh, it's no biggie, especially sice I caught it early on. Yeah, he's great. Yeah, he's pretty. (Omigawd. His eyes are perfect. :bomb:) I'll be just fine, though. No harm done. :nice: I can understand that it's frustrating but I think it's worse if you like someone and they're straight and single but they just aren't interested in you. Agreed. With a gay guy, you at least know for sure he's not interested. The straight ones are harder to read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NumbersGirl Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 Oh, it's no biggie, especially sice I caught it early on. Yeah, he's great. Yeah, he's pretty. (Omigawd. His eyes are perfect. :bomb:) Is his name Dan? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Violet Posted August 29, 2011 Author Share Posted August 29, 2011 :wtf: No. Why do you ask? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karencorpse Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 I find it easy to talk to gay guys. They are more intellegent, educated, can hold a converstaion. They are more relaxed, dress better, so that is why girls like them, can go to a formal with them, and he won't try to get into your pants, gay enjoys dancing. Straight guys can learn a lot from them. Straight guys usually want to hang out, hook up, spend your money, won't dance, no intelligent convertation (they save that for their friends). It is not that straight girls like gay guys. It is that they lilke guys who are better and do more things. If there are any good straight guys, I would like to hear from you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NumbersGirl Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 :wtf: No. Why do you ask? Just kind of reminded me of a guy I dated the summer between my freshman/sophomore year of high school. He "turned" after graduation. Hopefully I wasn't responsible. (okay I know it doesn't work like that, but still...) / probably should've mentioned that earlier but was a little embarrassed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destrokk Posted August 29, 2011 Share Posted August 29, 2011 You're are all gorgeous :snobby: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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