James. Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 No, because I have never been in a true relationship :smug: However, I was very close to this one girl who I lived near to when I was young. When I moved away we knew we may not see each other again, but we we were too young for it to really count as 'breaking up'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoryABjerre Posted January 27, 2012 Share Posted January 27, 2012 I think I feel guilty because I don't feel like I have an honest reason to end it. I feel like it's my fault and if I work on it, then I'll magically feel the same way that I used to, even though I really know that I won't. :disappointed: Blaming myself is what's making it hard, even though he doesn't help. :disappointed: in a couple is importante communication speak, and told him why you are unhappy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megalomania Posted January 28, 2012 Share Posted January 28, 2012 Never had a boyfriend (inb4 LOL I WONDER WHY) so I can't help, sorry. :| Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crests Posted January 28, 2012 Share Posted January 28, 2012 I've never really experienced it much either, the one time it was after like one day and I just kinda disappeared. :P And then there was that time in grade 6 where my method was to be awful so my abusive boyfriend would dump me :| Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt Posted January 28, 2012 Share Posted January 28, 2012 Never had a boyfriend (inb4 LOL I WONDER WHY) Oh god... don't know what to make of this... eye twitching... fingers shaking with indecision of what to type... :inquisitive: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted January 28, 2012 Author Share Posted January 28, 2012 Hey, you can only feel what you feel. If you don't feel the same way about him that he feels about you, to me, that's your reason to end it. You can't push yourself into falling in love with someone. Don't be so hard on yourself. Sometimes things just don't work out. :( :bigcry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EmmaLouiseSmyth Posted January 28, 2012 Share Posted January 28, 2012 Dear Baby, Welcome to Dumpville. Population---You. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crests Posted January 28, 2012 Share Posted January 28, 2012 edit: herp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Empily Posted January 28, 2012 Share Posted January 28, 2012 And then there was that time in grade 6 where my method was to be awful so my abusive boyfriend would dump me :| What do you mean by abusive Dx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NumbersGirl Posted January 28, 2012 Share Posted January 28, 2012 Dear Baby, Welcome to Dumpville. Population---You.this is pure awesomeness Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megalomania Posted January 29, 2012 Share Posted January 29, 2012 Oh god... don't know what to make of this... eye twitching... fingers shaking with indecision of what to type... :inquisitive: wat D: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pickle Posted January 29, 2012 Share Posted January 29, 2012 In all the relationships I've ever been in, I've always been the one to call it off. :| I always find one thing about the guy that bothers me and then I get paranoid about it...my love life is basically one big episode of Seinfeld. :disappointed: For me, when I tell the person that I don't want to be romantically involved anymore, I don't really seem to care, but then I feel uber guilty about it afterwards. My method is to tell them what you're thinking and feeling, and push them away as quickly as possible and then never talk to them ever again. :nice: :shame: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColdplayingfromKansas Posted January 29, 2012 Share Posted January 29, 2012 I went out with a guy for two years, but my friends all hated him. It got to the point where it was just really, really awkward for the both of us all the time, so I had to call it off. I just told him straight up, and he agreed that it would be better if we stopped 'dating' and went back to just being friends. . . . Then again, everything is easier when you're in 6th grade :blank: EDIT: So what I'm trying to say is: just be honest about why you want to break up, and if he tries to make you feel bad, turn the tables on him (as Carrie said) and ask him why he would want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Technicolor Sparks Posted January 29, 2012 Share Posted January 29, 2012 Never broken up with anyone. Turned someone down though, which was very awkward. So I can imagine that breaking up would be worse. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Petit Prince Posted January 29, 2012 Share Posted January 29, 2012 EDIT: So what I'm trying to say is: just be honest about why you want to break up, and if he tries to make you feel bad, turn the tables on him (as Carrie said) and ask him why he would want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with him. Sounds pretty harsh to be honest. He might be genuinely upset. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColdplayingfromKansas Posted January 29, 2012 Share Posted January 29, 2012 Sounds pretty harsh to be honest. He might be genuinely upset. Maybe, but I've always thought that it's better to have a clean break and be done with it rather than piddling around and dragging him through the mud. :uhoh: Plus, she's already tried breaking up with him in a 'gentler' way and it didn't work :shrug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Petit Prince Posted January 29, 2012 Share Posted January 29, 2012 Maybe, but I've always thought that it's better to have a clean break and be done with it rather than piddling around and dragging him through the mud. :uhoh: Plus, she's already tried breaking up with him in a 'gentler' way and it didn't work :shrug: Oh yeah definitely. You have to be honest with him. I just meant that he might have cried because he was upset rather than to make her feel bad so asking him why he'd want to be with someone who doesn't love him anymore might make things even worse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColdplayingfromKansas Posted January 29, 2012 Share Posted January 29, 2012 Oh yeah definitely. You have to be honest with him. I just meant that he might have cried because he was upset rather than to make her feel bad so asking him why he'd want to be with someone who doesn't love him anymore might make things even worse. Oh, I see your point. I guess The Mad Hatter will have to make that judgement call herself, then, since none of us will be able to see why he's crying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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