iccp Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 meh he never said a word to me oh well :/ and besides he'd probably do the same if I asked him in person... oh come on, Kat!!!! just give it some time!!!! i had an experience like this once.. there was this guy i liked some years ago and i think he liked me too...well, to cut the long story short, he held my hand and i wriggled my hand out of his....yeah..i did that and then we ended up smiling at each other shyly.....it went on like that for sometime...then nothing and then some more smiling..... you only don't know what's gonna happen!!!!!!!! be patient!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollyxyloto Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 I don't usually believe in fate and all those wives tales but I think if your thinking about what you want to happen, it won't, once you put it off your mind, it will? That always happens to me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iccp Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 I don't usually believe in fate and all those wives tales but I think if your thinking about what you want to happen, it won't, once you put it off your mind, it will? That always happens to me well...thoughts are magnetic....just be positive!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyan Kat Posted October 8, 2012 Author Share Posted October 8, 2012 ~every crush~ ALL OF THEM ~ ' Like a white water rapid~* it's because love hits you in the face like a rush of fast moving water then chucks you into a big rock of sadness or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyan Kat Posted October 8, 2012 Author Share Posted October 8, 2012 oh come on, Kat!!!! just give it some time!!!! i had an experience like this once.. there was this guy i liked some years ago and i think he liked me too...well, to cut the long story short, he held my hand and i wriggled my hand out of his....yeah..i did that and then we ended up smiling at each other shyly.....it went on like that for sometime...then nothing and then some more smiling..... you only don't know what's gonna happen!!!!!!!! be patient!!! well I doubt that in a month's time he's going to fall madly in love with me so I'm just try move on to be honest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
piscesmonkey* Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 it's because love hits you in the face like a rush of fast moving water then chucks you into a big rock of sadness or something. yeah but you have to bounce back up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not, so I'll just say that sometimes it's hard to get your words out. Yeah I was, but she felt she couldn't do it, so she did the next best thing by telling him on Facebook. I wasn't trying to be a cock to you, I just simply didn't agree with what you said. Sorry if that offended you. I'm really not, I actually don't remember a time where I've really freaked out like that. Usually because things just tend to happen with me Nah is ok, I was just thinking out loud. No offence taken. I can be a bit pedantic on here too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyan Kat Posted October 8, 2012 Author Share Posted October 8, 2012 it's cool guys I wanted to ask him out but it had been two weeks and it was driving me crazy and I just couldn't be bothered having to try again and again and somebody said earlier it only gets harder so yeah I just wanted to get it over with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Empily Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 I wouldn't lose hope, he may still reply. Maybe he needs some time to think it through :sad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyan Kat Posted October 8, 2012 Author Share Posted October 8, 2012 I wouldn't lose hope, he may still reply. Maybe he needs some time to think it through :sad: I already have and I'm actually not as upset as I thought I would be. He now knows how I feel so if he did feel the same it's up to him now and there's nothing more I'm going to do about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iccp Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I already have and I'm actually not as upset as I thought I would be. He now knows how I feel so if he did feel the same it's up to him now and there's nothing more I'm going to do about it. hey Kat.....stay positive!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I already have and I'm actually not as upset as I thought I would be. He now knows how I feel so if he did feel the same it's up to him now and there's nothing more I'm going to do about it. He might just not realise that you feel quite as strongly as you do. He might think it's just two mates meeting up. He might have meant to have messaged you back and forgotten, but he'll mention something in school. I don't know, but I think you should maybe mention it at some point to him, just say "Hey, did you get my message?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wyrd Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 The message was pretty clear, so I don't think he'll interpretate it as just two mates meeting up. Kat, I'm proud of you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Kat, I'm proud of you! Same, it takes a lot of courage to say something like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyan Kat Posted October 9, 2012 Author Share Posted October 9, 2012 I'm not going to start analyzing every little thing to try cling to some tiny piece of hope that he likes me, it's pretty clear he doesn't or he would have said something to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyan Kat Posted October 9, 2012 Author Share Posted October 9, 2012 He might just not realise that you feel quite as strongly as you do. He might think it's just two mates meeting up. He might have meant to have messaged you back and forgotten, but he'll mention something in school. I don't know, but I think you should maybe mention it at some point to him, just say "Hey, did you get my message?" If I told him that I felt strongly about him it would just make the situation even more awkward and besides I don't think he has actually told anyone, I'm not sure yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 If I told him that I felt strongly about him it would just make the situation even more awkward and besides I don't think he has actually told anyone, I'm not sure yet. I don't know then. Whatever you do, good luck with it, I think you did the right thing with the message. If it doesn't work out, it really is his loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollyxyloto Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Kat, he may have or may have not saw the message but if he ever treats you like crap, just tell us and he'll have an angry army of Coldplayers after him. Good Luck with it all though xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyan Kat Posted October 9, 2012 Author Share Posted October 9, 2012 he will have seen it by now and I know he's been online a few times when I've been chatting to other friends so yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Troxley Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Well, when I get a message on facebbok that is more serious, sometimes I wait till I have enough time to right a good reply. (Not saying that's what he's doing, but who knows...) And if this doesn't work out, I have four brothers to chose from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollyxyloto Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Do you still have all the same feelings for him? Just pop up, "heyyaaa" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyan Kat Posted October 9, 2012 Author Share Posted October 9, 2012 Do you still have all the same feelings for him? Just pop up, "heyyaaa" not really, I mean I still like him but I'm not thinking about him so much as I was before and no I'm not saying anything to him unless he starts a conversation with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollyxyloto Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 :hug: Maybe we i mean you just need to wait.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyan Kat Posted October 9, 2012 Author Share Posted October 9, 2012 I will do but I'm not expecting to be anything more than friends and I'm okay with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I will do but I'm not expecting to be anything more than friends and I'm okay with that. Then that's good, right? :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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