one thing you must always remember in these situations...

 

"DON'T...FALL...OVER" :laugh3:

 

and if you do end up doing something rediculous in front of him, make sure you are wearing something very revealing. then he'll help you out :)

 

it sounds vulgar but men are so much easier to get that girls, all you need to do is look him in the eye from a distance and smile flirtatiously at him, and BAM!! - he's yours.

All you need is confidence..:wink: you need to get your man, girl!:lol: :Por are you gonna wait around until someone else gets him because you were too nervous on what to say or how he was gonna take it?

thanks so much for your advice!

 

you guys really encourage me to just start talking to him. :nice:

 

what i sometimes worry about is that he seems to know lots of girls that don't attend our school. i mean, he's got a lot of female friends and that makes me wonder why he's single and he's probably after one of them.

i do not know.

i just feel uncomfortable with that.

well you'll find out sooner or later.. if you don't start talking to him.. then you'll never know the whole dirty details :p lol that's funny.. I'm in funny mood today it seems.. :shifty:

Scientists say... the best way to approach to the opposite sex is always with a smile.

If you're afraid to approach him, you might never find out what could have been.

 

Remeber Coldplay's hidden messages:

 

"If you never try youll never know

Just what your worth"

-Fix You

 

Have faith in Coldplay, they know a thing or two

you sound like a pathetic 15/16 year old

 

Hey, take it easy you meanie. She's just 17, what do you expect from her?

Btw, have neither seen very intelligent statements coming from your threads. I mean, let's bring some of your brightest topics here:

 

I just shot some acid, ain't I so great guys? :kiss:

Should I try marijuana or not? I heard it causes cellulitis... :cheesy:

However you clearly are unable to identify with correct grammar ie they're and their. As an undergraduate student at an extremely prestigious university in England i do fear you are rather undermining me in your pathetic school girl fashion with your school girl ''crush'' and just your general school girl idiocy. Now if you long for some appropriate advice, you are sure to be speaking to the right person who knows how to manipulate any situation for their own benefit. I have already recognised that you are infatuated, yet you plan on doing little about it. The question is, will this ever amount to anything? I have found that the best relationships i've ever had with the dimmer sex happens to be when i'm least expecting anything to happen. Evidently this is the case for a fair few people, if you want to persist with this year 12 of yours i advice you to specifically advocate a spare lighter into the palm of his hand. This will draw his attention to you. Following this strike up intriging and exciting conversation. Ask him where he is heading, whether he frequently enjoys laisons, whether he longs for a companion.

 

Right i give up. I have some Economics work to do.

 

Sort your life out yourself you fool.

no one likes you.

i know that.

i'm definitely going to talk to him.

i just need a good reason to start a conversation.

or an opening line.

i really have no clue what to say.

that's my greatest problem.

Scientists say... the best way to approach to the opposite sex is always with a smile.

 

or with no clothes on. :D

Whoa whoa whoa. back off you little snot. don't be talking to Grace like that. She's a sweetie. And if you don't want to read "pathetic" topics like this then shut the fffffffffffffffuuuuuuuuuuuccccc kkkkkkkk up and don't.

 

 

Oh and Emily! I'm dying here from that pickup line. Going to use it tonight.....

 

Grace, just keep it casual and make lots of eye contact, eventually he'll be making his way over to talk to you. :)

hahaha.

thanks for backing me up, marisa. :laugh3:

 

yeah, i think... i don't know what to think, but it's a fact that he asked me for a lighter twice and i sorta ignored him both times. :dozey:

i can be an idiot. true.

 

and he once bumped into me a few months ago and said,"sorry" and again, i said nothing at all.

::EDIT:: and i didn't mention what i did last winter. :rolleyes:

When you see him just ask him if he needs a lighter. And grin :P

::EDIT:: and i didn't mention what i did last winter. :rolleyes:

 

You want me to ask what you did?

Go ahead, tell us.

Personally i would, just find him when he is alone, get the confidence together and approach him, and just, say hi sorry if its a bit forward, ive seen you about [ or something like that ] and was wondering if we could hang out some time, maybe get to know each other? Yes it cuts the bs cheesy chat up lines and cuts to the chase. At least if you say that he knows your intentions and you can get straight on with the game without ponsing about with does he or doesnt he like me. If he says yes clearly he finds you nice, if a excuse comes up with a excuse you know and you tried. With a chat up line or something you could use it then be struck by awkward silence and not knowing what to say to each other next.

If you use the method i tried have questions or talking points planned ahead so if he goes along with it you already have thought stuff up to kick the convo off. Only thing with the way i said was it takes courage to do it, but if you do it shows you have confidence which is a attraction to a lot. In any case good luck with it is much more easier said than done. Just give it a shot you never try you never know, whats there to loose?

You want me to ask what you did?

Go ahead, tell us.

 

clever kid.

it was around christmas and i just thought i had to give everyone i like a little something. i got into a really... well.. dunno... weird mood.

so i came up with making him a mixtape.

i'm a girly girl. i do all that cheesy stuff... and the worst thing about it is that i actually enjoy it.

well, i made him a mixtape because i sorta knew what music he was into and i also put some of my favourite songs on it (including two coldplay songs to justify why i'm posting this on here).

so i put it on his locker on a monday and when i went to english class on tuesday morning it was still on there, but i knew he has art class on tuesday morning and he always gets his pad out of his locker. so when i went downstairs in the 5-minute-break i noticed that the tape was gone.

whatsoever.

i didn't sign it or anything.

and since then he does all this weird stuff. well... it became more intensive over the last couple of weeks.

so i really liked your idea glen. i mean that... "i know it's a bit forward, but... you just really make a nice impression... and...blah."

i should write down those words because i always lose the lines i want to say when i see him.

 

well that last advice its hard.... Yeah it cuts off the chase but I kinda like the chase... The not knowing makes it exciting and heart breaking at the same time

Grace you are cute:)

 

Im shy too, but just strike a convo up with him. Dont let people tell you that you are lame or an immature snotty kid. Everyone is different when it comes to talking to the one they fancy. Some are just not as shy as others. If you want someone to truley fall for you, just be yourself:)

 

my advice sucks, but its positive.

 

P.s What is up with people always bringing up grammar errors(Im sure this post has tons.. )But, its like it gets away from the actual message.Insteadof answering a question, someone points out all the grammar errors.

Slap him on his bum and say you love him.

 

That was the best,lol

That was the best,lol

 

The irony of it is that if a guy were to do this to a girl (slapping her on the bum and saying he loves her), he'd prolly go to jail for a long time. lol

I doubt he would go to jail, but he sure as shit would get slapped in the face!

However you clearly are unable to identify with correct grammar ie they're and their. As an undergraduate student at an extremely prestigious university in England i do fear you are rather undermining me in your pathetic school girl fashion with your school girl ''crush'' and just your general school girl idiocy. Now if you long for some appropriate advice, you are sure to be speaking to the right person who knows how to manipulate any situation for their own benefit. I have already recognised that you are infatuated, yet you plan on doing little about it. The question is, will this ever amount to anything? I have found that the best relationships i've ever had with the dimmer sex happens to be when i'm least expecting anything to happen. Evidently this is the case for a fair few people, if you want to persist with this year 12 of yours i advice you to specifically advocate a spare lighter into the palm of his hand. This will draw his attention to you. Following this strike up intriging and exciting conversation. Ask him where he is heading, whether he frequently enjoys laisons, whether he longs for a companion.

 

Right i give up. I have some Economics work to do.

 

Sort your life out yourself you fool.

 

You should be utterly ashamed of your posts on this thread.

 

Such a needlessly poisonous attitude as yours doesn't deserve a place anywhere on the internet, much less on a Coldplay site.

 

I can only think you have had some really terrible things happen to you in your life to behave as you have here, and for that I pity you.

Try and get one of your friends to introduce him to you Grace :wink:

Walk up to him, talk.

^ yeah, that's going to be my strategy.

and i guess it'll depend on the situation a bit, too.

i don't know.

i hope he doesn't think i'm too weird because i just start talking to him for no particular reason.