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[Tash]

May 15, 2012 - submitted by Antonella, Argentina

 

Q. Hi Oracle! I was wondering, what song do you enjoy more when Coldplay plays it on stage? I think Politik is the most emotional and passionate. So, what do you think?

Thanks for your time. We're waiting for you in Argentina!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I totally agree. Ever since its first appearance it has remained my absolute favourite song in the set.

I'm so sad to see it go and know that decision will not have been easy as it's one of Chris' favourites too.

[Tash]

May 15, 2012 - submitted by Karen, France

 

Q. Hello dear Oracle,

I was wondering if the boys always rehearse a bit before each show.

Thank you ! :)

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

They rehearse before a tour plus there are intense production rehearsals to make sure all the lights, sounds, effects etc. work with the set and everything's running smoothly.

They don't rehearse before each show though they sometimes pick up guitars in the dressing room and jam. There are of course soundchecks where they run through a song or two - if they attend. I've mentioned before that they're not always able to so the crew stand in for them.

They always warm up vocally before every live performance though.

[Rainystrawberry]

May 15, 2012 - submitted by Ellen, United States of America[/color][/b]

 

Q. What do the letters CK stand for??

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Car Kids; it was the name of a song recorded for the MX album.

I first thought it eventually became Charlie Brown but as that name stuck from kicking around early during proceedings, it was a separate entity entirely.

 

EP hopefully with Car Kids?

[Tash]

May 16, 2012 - submitted by Sofia, Portugal

 

Q. Hi!

Is this Chris' handwriting?

 

Thanks :)

All my love for Coldplay, and Coldplay crew.

Hugs from Portugal, waiting for may 18 in Porto :)

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Although the way that 'Chris' has been written is similar to the way that Chris writes it - in that the H and R are capitalized - I have to say that it's hard to say for certain.

There are a lot of fakes around but as the guys sign a lot of autographs and theirs are not always neat, tidy or perfect.

If Chris wrote this, I can tell you that it written in haste let's put it that way!

[Tash]

May 16, 2012 - submitted by Jack, United Kingdom

 

Q. Hello O..

Urgent question!

 

I have a ticket for 1st of June

I am thinking about buying a second ticket for a friend...

They are both pitch standing tickets, but the tickets says we should enter at different locations...mine is turnstile E and the other is L.

we would be queuing for a long time to get to front row... but I don't want to queue separately.

Can we both queue together at one entrance, or do we HAVE to stick to the designated entrance on our tickets?

Many thanks.

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

The reason you are given different entrances even for standing tickets is to alleviate the pressure at any one entry point rather than have a congested area. It spreads the queues out and is part of health & saftey measures. If all family, friends and acquaintances decided to just queue together and ignore their turnstile letter, it could lead to a surge in numbers.

I have had to queue at a different entrance to the people I have travelled with (turned out I got in half and hour before them so was quite pleased) but we just had a pre-arranged meeting spot once inside. Of course, you could always phone each other once inside...

[Tash]

May 16, 2012 - submitted by James, United Kingdom

 

Q. Hi Oracle:

Just read Roadie #42 's latest blog and he said:

"They're most definitely in the zone right now. There have been tinkerings, though with some possible setlist additions in soundchecks. One of the Viva album tracks that only got a rare live outing has had a workout. I really hope it makes it back into the setlist, it's one of my all time favourite Coldplay live tracks (particularly the ending when Jonny goes off into full on guitar hero territory)."

 

Is it Yes and Chinese Sleep Chant?!

If there is any chance of Chinese Sleep Chant at London I will be over the moon!

Thanks

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I have been waiting for this question from the second the blog was published.

I don't want to spoil it because the song isn't actually in the set but may be as the dates go on. Yes was my favourite from Viva so we shall see if #42 and I have the same exquisite taste. I think it was only played once - or maybe twice due to the vocal being so very low.

I really honestly have to say that I doubt Chinese Sleep Chant will be played on this tour though...

[TraceOddity]

May 16, 2012 - submitted by James, United Kingdom[/color][/b]

 

Q. Hi Oracle:

Just read Roadie #42 's latest blog and he said:

"They're most definitely in the zone right now. There have been tinkerings, though with some possible setlist additions in soundchecks. One of the Viva album tracks that only got a rare live outing has had a workout. I really hope it makes it back into the setlist, it's one of my all time favourite Coldplay live tracks (particularly the ending when Jonny goes off into full on guitar hero territory)."

 

Is it Yes and Chinese Sleep Chant?!

If there is any chance of Chinese Sleep Chant at London I will be over the moon!

Thanks

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I have been waiting for this question from the second the blog was published.

I don't want to spoil it because the song isn't actually in the set but may be as the dates go on. Yes was my favourite from Viva so we shall see if #42 and I have the same exquisite taste. I think it was only played once - or maybe twice due to the vocal being so very low.

I really honestly have to say that I doubt Chinese Sleep Chant will be played on this tour though...

 

This would make me SO happy!! I LOVE the live ending!:D

[Tash]

May 17, 2012 - submitted by John, United Kingdom

 

Q. So unfair! I bought my tickets for Emirates concert in November taking a day off work to be on line at 9.00am to get best tickets. We have seen Coldplay many times and are massive fans. I wanted to take my teenage kids this time and were given ticket at the very back! Today - 17th May - better tickets are on sale! Have these good seats been held back so the ones at the back will sell first? If so, this is wholly unfair and seems wrong to penalise the genuine fans. It cannot be for the reason given to do with stage planning as the seats on sale today are not affected by the stage just on a lower level. Good seats should be sold on a first come first served basis, quite apart from the fact my tickets were paid for in November!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I don't want to appear rude but it appears you didn't read the news piece that went along with the announcement of extra seats becoming available. The reasons and therefore the answer to your question lie within it.

[Tash]

May 17, 2012 - submitted by Craig, United Kingdom

 

Q. Hi,

 

Are the band playing the free concert in Glasgow George Square on the 8th of June?

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I'm not sure where you heard that but no, they're not. They're playing Sunderland the day before and London & Manchester the day after.

[Tash]

May 17, 2012 - submitted by Oliver, Denmark

 

Q. Is it true that the Safety EP goes for £2000 because only 500 copies were ever made?

Maybe you have the answer, Oracle?

Thanks!

Oliver

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

It is true that only 500 copies were made and that does make the item very rare and therefore expensive. I have seen the Safety EP at various prices over the years, the most being £2500.

[PrincessofChina]

 

The Oracle replies:

I don't want to spoil it because the song isn't actually in the set but may be as the dates go on. Yes was my favourite from Viva so we shall see if #42 and I have the same exquisite taste. I think it was only played once - or maybe twice due to the vocal being so very low.

 

LET IT BE YES. :awesome:

 

& I agree with Tracie, the live ending is phenomenal :)

[TraceOddity]

Tash? Do you recall a question about Chris wearing his MX clothes in the tweeted pic of the band flying kites? I've scoured this thread with no luck, but I'm sure she said something about it. :confused:

[Coeurli]

^

May 9, 2012 - submitted by Eline, Belgium[/color][/b]

 

Q. I saw photos of Chris kite-flying. Does he always wear the MX-shirt? I thought it only was for concerts. Have a nice day! BTW: setlist is great! Please come to Belgium!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

The only time the guys wear stage gear is for on stage, video shoots, photo shoots and interviews. I would put money therefore on those photos being taken at one of the above - but obviously not a live show.

:)

[Tash]

Tash? Do you recall a question about Chris wearing his MX clothes in the tweeted pic of the band flying kites? I've scoured this thread with no luck, but I'm sure she said something about it. :confused:

 

Look! :D

http://www.coldplaying.com/forum/showthread.php?p=5299967&post5299967

[TraceOddity]

Thanks! I didn't look far enough into May.

[Tash]

May 18, 2012 - submitted by The Oracle, United Kingdom

 

Q. WHO'D LIKE TO JOIN TEAM ORACLE?

When I answer questions of a personal nature, Coldplay.com readers often get in touch with their own thoughts. So, we now have a weekly feature, Team Oracle, whereby each Friday (with the question asker's permission) we open up a question to all of you to answer too. Then, the following Friday, I'll post a selection of the best answers, alongside my own reply.

ANYONE can join in so, if you'd like to, please email your response to the following question, in no more than 250 words, to [email protected] before midnight Thursday 24th May.

 

I've been really depressed lately. I'm 20 years old and had my first kiss, and subsequent kisses thereafter for almost 2 months with a girl. Thing is, she really really liked me, but the entire time we were together, I could never figure out if I liked her or not. In fact, the first time she asked me to kiss her, I said no. I just wish I would have stopped it there, but I tried the relationship even though I wasn't sure about her. When it ended peacefully, I was fine. But now a couple weeks later I think back on it and regret everything. I feel like I gave a part of myself away for someone that I don't really like. It was my first time living at college away from home, so it was a stressful period, but that shouldn't be an excuse for seeking physical comfort from someone I wasn't sure about. Now I can't stop thinking about it and am truly depressed. Gavin, USA.

 

Look forward to seeing your replies.

The Oracle

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Please email your replies to [email protected]

[Tash]

May 18, 2012 - submitted by Viral, India

 

Q. TEAM ORACLE QUESTION #71

I really need your help. I am in love with my friend who does not love me back in the same manner. I even got her to reveal the fact that she avoids me nowadays because she thinks I like her. For friendship's sake, I told her that I didn't. But I know that she is the one for me and that no one can love her the way I do. I really want her to reciprocate the same feelings for me. What should I do??

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

This is such a common problem and one I can empathize with. However, she is not and cannot be "the one" for you if she does not feel the same way. That simply does not equate. No matter how much you want her to reciprocate, you

if she doesn't. I think most of us at one time or another have felt we are the best person for another and that no-one is as good for them as we are, but as you see, it is not always our choice to make. Therefore it can't be true or they'd see it too and choose us.

You never know in life what the future holds so one day this girl's feelings for you may change. If that possibility is something you want to wait for and put your life on hold for, go ahead but it may be an impossibility you are waiting for. Please don't waste your time. If you value your friendship, take a step back and give her space. You need space too as it must be torture being around someone you're pretending not to care so much for.

I've said this before but why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Find someone deserving of your love who appreciates you for who you are.

I know this all sounds quite dark and depressing but the very good news and light in all of this is I promise you that you will find another "one". You may not find the right girl for you for a while yet but she's out there somewhere. You need to get over this girl first and move on with your life.

Over to you.

 

This situation could take you a number of places, and could end up either going very well, to very un-well, so remember to be careful in all that you do, say, move, and even think. To begin with, don't ever do anything desperate, confusing, or uncivil in any way, to try to contradict her beliefs. You have to show that you respect her feelings and her choices. Try to rebuild that friend relation you had with her before, but be sure to show her in detail characteristics and features that show how you'd be great in a relationship. Try not to overdue that with extremes, or showing off anything. And please be yourself, because if you try to be the person she would want to marry instead, all you'll get is a life full of misery. And I'm sorry to say, but maybe it can't be fixed, where as you'll have to find a way to move on and try to make the best of it, and begin your search again. As the song goes "Nobody said it was easy"(one of my favorites!). I truly hope it works out for you, and may your love see the real you, and love you for it. Good luck.

Sincerely, your friend, J.

 

You've already accepted your status as friends, and that is important because it shows you aren't needy and that it's no loss to you. DO NOT beg her to be with you. Girls don't like a needy and insecure guy. Remember, confidence is key! She already enjoys being around you, so you're halfway there! However, being more than friends is a matter of being sexually attracted to one another. You can lift weights, learn piano/guitar, or take up an exciting hobby that will help her become more attracted to you. Girls love it when you play and/or sing for them! Ok, this will sound horrible, but the most important thing you can do is make her jealous, because people want what they can't have. Flirt with other girls and date around as much as possible. When she sees that other girls are dating you, she will realize that SHE is the one missing out! Start flirting with her more, and things will take shape in your favor. Best of luck! Blake.

 

I think you said it yourself, that she doesn't feel the same way. You shouldn't hurt yourself by trying to force something that she's told you, won't happen. Every time she rejects you, or avoids you, it'll make you feel worse about it. As hard as it may seem, you should try your best to move on. Maybe you shouldn't communicate with her for a while to make it easier on yourself. Have confidence in yourself, and know that there'll always be more people out there to meet and get close to. Don't waste your time chasing after someone who has told, and showed you they're not interested. You, and anyone in the same situation deserves better. Wish you the best. Love, Darm.

 

I think that what you're going through is something many others have dealt with too, so take comfort in the fact that you are not alone. My advice is try to move on. If she doesn't feel the same way, then she may not be the one for you. Her avoiding you is a sign that it's maybe time to try and move forward with your life. I know that it's easier said than done. But for your own sake, you need to try. I am not saying to cut her out of your life completely or that you should never speak to her again. I am saying; try to stay away from her for a little while to see how you'll feel. You can't force someone to love you, that much I know. If you two are meant to be together, you will end up with each other eventually. If not seeing her is too big of a step to make first, try talking to her, as a friend. Maybe conversation is the key to solving your problems. Whichever way you choose to take, I hope you will remember that if this person doesn't love you in that way, someone else will. Good luck. Sincerely, Medina.

 

This might sound weird, but think of this situation from your friend's perspective. When I was in high school, one of my best friends was, I guess we can say, in love with me. When I found out, it freaked me out and I became avoidant (just like your friend). My friend realized that I was not at a place where I was ready to be in a relationship, and he knew that in order to care for me, he needed to be my friend for the time being. We worked through the awkward, and he gave me the friendship that I needed. Two and a half years after all of that, we started dating. You see, it took me a while, but I eventually realized that he was the one for me. It takes some people a little longer to realize who is right for them. Now, we have been dating for four years, all because he loved me so much that he worked hard to continue our friendship. I don't know if this will happen for you two, but I know that I needed my friend as a friend at that point in time. If you care about her, be what she needs, be her friend. I know it's hard, but if you continue to push her into a romantic relationship, you will only push her away. Imagine how you would feel if you were in her situation. As time goes on, you two will continue to learn and grow, and who knows what will happen, but all you can do is realize that friendship is the best situation for the time being. Sincerely, Amelia.

 

I don't want to hurt your feelings, but it isn't always easy to find someone who'll love you back. In fact, unrequited love is a very normal thing. It's always been.

We all experience that some time in our lives. Luckily, time cures it.

Perhaps all you have to do is be patient and let sadness go...

Never give up in your life.

Better times will come.

I know it is a pity, but it is not possible to change anyone's mind to make them love us the same way we do.

So, if possible go along with the friendship and if it pains too much do what is best for you.

Try to focus on other things as much as possible.

Rely on friends and activities.

The best of luck, Caro

 

The fact you're friends means she obviously likes you, but not in that way. You didn't say whether she believes that you don't like her or not but as I see it you either hang in there and hope she does see you as more of a friend in time (but only if you back off doing whatever it was that made her feel uncomfortable), or move on and stop hanging around with her for a while at least, or talk to her and say that you do actually have feelings for her and try and work out together how you can both stay friends. Sorry I can't be of more help, but when I was in the same situation I didn't make a good job of it. We eventually got together one night and then he never spoke to me again. I wish we'd stayed friends. Katy.

 

Thanks to everyone who wrote in with their replies. Team Oracle is open to everyone so if you fancy getting involved, click to read this week's question, and send us your answer.

[getithom]

May 16, 2012 - submitted by James, United Kingdom[/color][/b]

 

Q. Hi Oracle:

Just read Roadie #42 's latest blog and he said:

"They're most definitely in the zone right now. There have been tinkerings, though with some possible setlist additions in soundchecks. One of the Viva album tracks that only got a rare live outing has had a workout. I really hope it makes it back into the setlist, it's one of my all time favourite Coldplay live tracks (particularly the ending when Jonny goes off into full on guitar hero territory)."

 

Is it Yes and Chinese Sleep Chant?!

If there is any chance of Chinese Sleep Chant at London I will be over the moon!

Thanks

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I have been waiting for this question from the second the blog was published.

I don't want to spoil it because the song isn't actually in the set but may be as the dates go on. Yes was my favourite from Viva so we shall see if #42 and I have the same exquisite taste. I think it was only played once - or maybe twice due to the vocal being so very low.

I really honestly have to say that I doubt Chinese Sleep Chant will be played on this tour though...

 

I would be :awesome: if they play Yes in Dallas.

[Coeurli]

^Chris' voice is hot :nod:

 

:P

[getithom]

^Chris' voice is hot :nod:

 

:P

 

Like u. :nod:

[Coeurli]

Like u. :nod:

:nod: :gorgeous:

[Tash]

May 21, 2012 - submitted by Nicoletta, Italy

 

Q. Hi!

I wrote here just because I couldn't (and I can't) wait to see Coldplay in Nice tomorrow.

When Coldplay perform in a concert of a determined tour (for example Mylo Xyloto), do they play any song of the previous albums? I ask it because if they play songs like Clocks or Yellow tomorrow, I'll be the happiest girl in the world.

 

Thank you so much!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I too am going to Nice tomorrow and am pretty excited - thought not about the weather that is forecast. The rain seems to be following the tour!

They always play a selection of songs and they are from all albums.

I don't like giving away setlists in advance but as last night's is available online I'm not spoiling anything by telling you that you won't be disappointed Nicoletta.

[Tash]

May 21, 2012 - submitted by Denise, United States of America

 

Q. Do the guys know they won three billboard awards last night? Congratulate them for me will you? thanks!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

They actually won four, but thanks for your thanks.

[Tash]

May 21, 2012 - submitted by Dhamar, Mexico

 

Q. Hey, dear Oracle!

 

What's first? Ode to Deodorant or Safety EP? I'm confused, please reply!

 

Greetings from all the members of the League of Latinamerican's Coldplayers!

 

Thank you!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Safety (on CD) came first in May 1998. Ode to Deodorant (on cassette) was recorded later in the same year and served as a second demo.

[coldplayisawesome]

May 21, 2012 - submitted by Nicoletta, Italy

... if they play songs like Clocks or Yellow...

 

:blank:

 

 

:laugh3::laugh3::laugh3::laugh3::laugh3: