June 13, 201016 yr I went to that party yesterday. I arrived there quite late so everyone was drunk already. I went on the dancefloor and suddenly there was this guy who started dancing with me. He did that several times and after a while it became clear that he wanted to kiss me. I said I don't want to, because I don't want to kiss any stranger esp. not when he is drunk, because he might not even remember my name the next day. But we stayed together all night long and he was begging me so much, so I said ok and just gave him a kiss which showed me that he actually wanted to make out with me. I said no again. He seemed to be quite disappointed. I told that I want to get to know him first and then we can make out and stuff. And I mean I was/am really interested in him. He gave me his number and told me I should call or write him. I implied before that I want to meet him. So now is this stupid next day. And I am afraid that I've fucked it up again. I don't even know if he was actually interested in me or just interested in making out. I wrote him that I want to meet him again when we're sober (which is a really brave step by me.....haha some of you know me). I really hope he will reply.....omg I feel like a 15 year old girl. But I've always fucked it up, because I appear so cold....and I guess I did the same yesterday although I wanted to show him that I am interested in him....and ah I am confused....:wacky: Are you someone who makes/made out with any random person at a party esp. when you are interested in them? :freak::bigcry:
June 13, 201016 yr Well he was drunk in the first place, so most likely he won't be mad or think that you weren't interested in him. Give him a call and go out to dinner, kill the barrier first and then the German hardcoreness can come in. It's all about formula my dear. :cool:
June 13, 201016 yr Author omg...he replied....and in such a nice way....awwwwwww....he said he wants to meet me again...ahhh...:blush::blush:
June 13, 201016 yr Author oh god I am such a girly but I said shit again....ahhh don't mind me:wacky:
June 13, 201016 yr you are in the driving seat so keep calling the shots. the fact he replied eagerly shows he has a certain amount of respect for the way you handled last night. that's good. keep it so you two only do what you are comfortable with and don't rush things. if he won't wait he isn't worth it. meet up with him and try and get to know him and hopefully you'll get along. good luck!
June 13, 201016 yr Well done for contacting him. Hope things work out for you! I'm not gonna lie, if I was single and someone I liked tried to kiss me I probably wouldn't say no (unless I knew they were in a relationship or sth). Chances are you're not gonna regret it. Not every guy is a potential boyfriend but who cares if you had a good time? Everyone's different though. If you don't feel comfortable kissing someone you don't know then don't do it just to please them.
June 14, 201016 yr Author hehe I really hope I will meet him again....I'm still quite sceptical about it........but,I've been optimistic about this year and so far it has been a quite good year.....:dance: and who knows? for me it's a good sign that I even dared to write him without thinking too much about it...:wacky:
June 14, 201016 yr Author oh so far we are just talking random things...like how are you?what are you doing? what's your job?Blablabla....well he is asking me many questions haha...I really just hope we manage to meet again soon....
June 14, 201016 yr Author mwha thanks...:wacky: he's asked me what I've planned for the weekend...:blush:
June 15, 201016 yr Author ok fuck ok.....he hasn't planned anything for friday and I haven't planned anything for saturday...ah shit... hmmm...sunday? :wacky: :freak: sorry...:bigcry:
June 16, 201016 yr ok fuck ok.....he hasn't planned anything for friday and I haven't planned anything for saturday...ah shit... hmmm...sunday? :wacky: :freak: sorry...:bigcry: Calm down, he might be just in pursuit of your pussy. Be careful. Take it slowly.
June 17, 201016 yr Author ok.....question: he lied to me. He told me he was 25 and his best friend said the same. I was quite sceptical about that first because he looked so young that's why I asked him (he told me that evening when he was so drunk)....the last days I was still sceptical about it, but I didn't dare to ask him again.... so I just found out he is 20! AHHHHHHH-......why? Why do I attract younger guys so much (it's not the first time). ? well we will meet again in 2 weeks....should I?:facepalm: does age matter? I am turning 23 in November btw...I know this might sound a bit hysterical, but I never thought of dating a younger guy....esp. not at my age...maybe when I am older and I just wish I knew what to think of all this....he either really just wants my pussy or he wants to get to know me....but I let him know that I am not a girl "for one night"----- and well I do not look like a girl who acts like that and uh well
June 17, 201016 yr I don't think his age matters but the fact that he lied to you does. It might be a good idea to meet him when you're with your friends.
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