Do You Let Other Peoples Opinion on Someone Influence Yours?

[Reilly]

What is that supposed to mean?!?

 

To be honest I normally agree with Lore but I don't know what she's talking about. And personally the whole 'jumping on the bandwagon' thing is a very exhausted explanation as to why some people are hated on here.

 

A few posts ago I sarcastically used that as an excuse as to why I'm receiving negative comments, of course I know that people don't just 'jump on a bandwagon' they normally have some reason to criticise someone (As you probably have for me) that spurs them to write something, otherwise they would write nothing at all. The reaction to criticism by acknowledging it is personal is called taking responsibility, not just blaming a 'bandwagon'.

 

Now looking at Mark or someone like Viva (And quite a few others) who expect criticism from the same members and think its some sort of congregation of people as if we have meetings about attacking them, it's simply because we happen to be outspoken and we're saying what a lot of people are thinking. If it is a 'bandwagon' then it happens for a reason, because certain people on here are tools and some of us can't help but remind them.

 

So I don't like the idea of ever using this 'bandwagon' theory because even if a handful of people are giving me abuse (Which does happen) I know it's because I've probably said something to antagonise them personally or their friend, so I deal with it. Whining about how people just "Jump on the bandwagon" is like saying "They're only abusing me to be cool, there couldn't possibly be anything wrong with me" and that's incredibly arrogant and sad.

[*MX*ColdplayObsess3d]

:stunned: That was deep, Reilly.

[Reilly]

Mkai. The 'bandwagon' excuse has always been a pet peeve for me, just because a collective group of people don't like someone it doesn't negate their reasons for disliking them.

[Crests]

I think what this thread needs is a nice dose of "H8AZ GON' H8".

[mc_squared]

:stunned: That was deep, Reilly.

 

And excessively serious, I'd say............................. :dozey:

[*MX*ColdplayObsess3d]

I think what this thread needs is a nice dose of "H8AZ GON' H8".

+1,000,000,000,000 :laugh3:

 

And excessively serious, I'd say............................. :dozey:

Serious isn't always bad............................. :rolleyes:

[ViVA Child]

I think what this thread needs is a nice dose of "H8AZ GON' H8".

 

I know this is terrible.

 

I thought maybe someone would say something snarky but not the whole damn thread.

 

This and The Scared of FB thread should be locked.....please.

[*MX*ColdplayObsess3d]

I know this is terrible.

 

I thought maybe someone would say something snarky but not the whole damn thread.

 

This and The Scared of FB thread should be locked.....please.

 

This one maybe, but the FB thread? NO 'EFFING WAY, WOMAN!!

[Reilly]

And excessively serious, I'd say............................. :dozey:

 

It needs to be said somewhere, of course you're going to dislike it because it puts your big excuse of how people only dislike you because they want to be on 'the bandwagon'. You may dislike it, but answering to it is another matter, you can't do that so you just ignore it as being too serious.

 

I highly doubt you actually believe this, but you always give this impression that the only reason people dislike you is that we're doing it to jump on the bandwagon. It's pretty weird the amount of confrontations you've caused on this forum and often you get hateful reactions from people who don't know anything about you or that you are generally disliked on here, and it's always them and their fault. It's always the 'usual suspects' as you call it, that's pure arrogance. You have a real fault in accepting that maybe people dislike you.

[ViVA Child]

ugh The ignore feature is so pointless cuz I know what crap hes going to say back.

[*MX*ColdplayObsess3d]

What ignore feature? :thinking:

[Reilly]

ugh The ignore feature is so pointless cuz I know what crap hes going to say back.

 

It's even more pointless when you don't use it as I wouldn't be able to respond to this topic if I were on your ignore list. Embarrassing eh?

[ViVA Child]

the one thats a bit like covering your eyes....

the problem is still there.

[*MX*ColdplayObsess3d]

^^Ouch

[mc_squared]

ugh The ignore feature is so pointless cuz I know what crap hes going to say back.

 

Maybe so, but at least you then can't see it. Plus anyone on your ignore list shouldn't be able to post in a thread you've created, but I believe someone's looking into that.;)

[*MX*ColdplayObsess3d]

Confusion in Post 166 :confused:

[Reilly]

Maybe so, but at least you then can't see it. Plus anyone on your ignore list shouldn't be able to post in a thread you've created, but I believe someone's looking into that.;)

 

Or maybe like Arwen I'm not actually on her Ignore list.

[*MX*ColdplayObsess3d]

^ That would make sense

[ViVA Child]

Maybe so, but at least you then can't see it. Plus anyone on your ignore list shouldn't be able to post in a thread you've created,

 

Gee.... i wonder why ...

 

:blank:

[illuvcoldplay]

so what happens if you put a person on your ignore list and then someone quotes their post ? Will you be able to see it? Just curious :inquisitive:

[*MX*ColdplayObsess3d]

Dunno... :thinking:

[mc_squared]

so what happens if you put a person on your ignore list and then someone quotes their post ? Will you be able to see it? :inquisitive:

 

Only if it's posted in a thread you didn't actually create.;)

[Lore]

What is that supposed to mean?!?

 

it means this

 

Now looking at Mark or someone like Viva (And quite a few others) who expect criticism from the same members and think its some sort of congregation of people as if we have meetings about attacking them, it's simply because we happen to be outspoken and we're saying what a lot of people are thinking. If it is a 'bandwagon' then it happens for a reason, because certain people on here are tools and some of us can't help but remind them.

 

Except the Viva Child part, I don't have any problems with her.

 

It's not a "bandwagon", it's just people who think in a similar way I guess and post it in public. When you're around here for a while you notice how people acts and naturally you'll dislike some of them based in the stupid things they do or post over and over again. It's as simple as that.

[ViVA Child]

Only if it's posted in a thread you didn't actually create.;)

 

Yeah.... thats also not what Im seeing

 

this is so strange :blank:

[*MX*ColdplayObsess3d]

Straaaaaaaaaange