Professor Peedston Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 and i guess i was wondering, what's the standard period of time that i should wait before calling? I feel dumb asking that, but believe it or not, this is actually the first time this has ever happened to me, where I've been in complete control over the next step, because I have her number and she doesn't have mine. So I guess I'm just trying to get a general idea of what would be appropriate. :confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kettercat Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 I say the next day... I don't think that if a guy called me the next day it would make him look "desperate" or anything like that. I know I wouldn't bother if he waited a few days *shrugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guy's Gyal Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 Yeh leave it till the next day. It shows your intrested in her :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busybeeburns Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 I reckon after the weekend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~*Maria*~ Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 All I can advise is not to wait too long, because girls don't like men who don't call... or take too damn long to do it... so after the weekend is long enough ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
el_scorcho Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 Calling the next day would show you're interested, which is a good thing. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalter zug Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 weekend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~*Maria*~ Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 hahahaha ^^^your sig! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: LMAO! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Professor Peedston Posted June 26, 2004 Author Share Posted June 26, 2004 Thanks for your advice, everybody. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noni Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 After the weekend it's fine... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Justine* Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 one week rule. Make her wait. LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reilly Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 2am this morning. Thats impressive. :wink3: Wait the weekend, definately call her on Monday night. And tell her how breezy you are in phone conversations, she'll be mighty impressed. :wink3: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DoogieJ Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 dude, you don't tell him you're breezy, that totally negates the breezy :) ahh Friends :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
°°°Morning°Glory°°° Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 Well for me it's not that important WHEN a boy calls me...only THAT he does...(not after a year or what, okay) and that he's nice at the phone, not so quiet :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAFE Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 mmmh... it's simple.... CALL HER!!!!!! DUUUHHHH...! don't be shy... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Ali* Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 i would say the next, shows you're interested but not desperate :cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reilly Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 Noooo thats wrong! Monday is interested but not desperate, the day after is totally desparate. Im only after realising. Its like, you see her on Friday, the next time you call her your gonna talk to her AND ask her out, if you call the next day which is Saturday then its like, are you gonna go out with her AGAIN? You just saw her last night. She thinks "Wooooah I just saw this guy like last night and he wants out again tonight, how clingy". And you cant ask if you can go out with her next weekend because then she will think "Oh, whats wrong with tonight? Am I not good enough to go out with 2 nights in a row?!". Its crazy I know, but Monday is definately the day. Tuesdays alright too I guess if you forgot to on Monday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soleil Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 Hahahaha.. why do things have to be so complicated.. just call her when you feel like it. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Professor Peedston Posted June 27, 2004 Author Share Posted June 27, 2004 They are complicated, though. And I obviously tend to overanalyze little things like that. Frankly, I don't have enough confidence to say to myself, "It doesn't matter. I'll call when I want to, and if she thinks something of it, it's her loss." :confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kenna Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 really don't worry so much about it...its cute that you are tho! hehe. I would say a few days after...and just be totally casual, ask a lot of questions, be really friendly and nice, then eventually see where it leads and if you want, ask to see her soemtime. good luck :cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gvargas Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 if she gave you her number then she obviously doesn't mind you calling her and if she did then it's her problem now... but I would say if she is interested then the day after is fine...(cause she is probably waiting for the call) it's funny how a lot of the guys said to wait after the weekend :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
el_scorcho Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 So what did you end up doing?? I want details :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalter zug Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 tom peed himself :laugh3: :P :uhoh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kettercat Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Professor Peedston Posted June 27, 2004 Author Share Posted June 27, 2004 I haven't done anything yet... I'm planning on calling later this afternoon, though. I'll come back with all the details if you're really interested. :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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