It's here:

http://www.coldplaying.com/forum/showthread.php?t=63151

 

Have fun listening!! :kiss:

January 27, 2010 - submitted by tom, United Kingdom

 

Q. Dear O,

Good evening..

 

I can't even believe I am actually writing to you about this, but I have come to a state that most people call ...'desperation'.

 

I am a boy, almost 16 years old and right now quite embarrassed because I am talking about this. So, I think we should get the things right from the beginning.

 

They say that the stories about the greatest disasters in history and

also the most incredible things, start with the same phrase.

"There was a girl...".

 

And that's also my story's beginning.

 

So... there is a girl.

She is my best friend. I've known her for almost 3 years now and she is one of the very few people I am comfortable with. She is beautiful, smart and kind with incredible wit.

 

And... I... think... that I might have some feelings about her.

From the very beginning when we first met I really liked her but I did not do anything because we were young and I did not want relationship and stuff.

 

But the past few months or maybe year or even more, I don't remember, I think I 'love' her and I think that she feels quite the same way.

 

The problem is that I don't know exactly how I feel and how she feels and whether I love her... I mean I am only 16!! It is not really love right??

And that is why I don't want to do something with her. Because it will end someday and maybe in a very bad way, and I will lose a best friend. I mean I don't know many relationships from 15 year old kids that lasted for years, but I do know many strong friendships that lasted forever.

 

And on top of everything I am scared! Because I don't have much experience with stuff like this.

 

Maybe I should do something. But I just can't. Maybe because she is my friend or maybe because I do not have the guts.

I really don't know.

 

Please help...

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Tom I think you are amazing. The trouble with older people like me is that we can sometimes patronize younger people as I am quite possibly about to do without meaning to. You are so wise for your 16 years and how I only wish I could have had those feelings at that age.

 

You are right in a lot of what you say but maybe you don't need to think too hard about some of it just yet. Young love is just as valid as any other kind and again adults can be very dismissive passing it off as a crush or saying it won't last. To be honest the odds are that it won't but that doesn't mean you should avoid it or resist it. I look back at some of the times I thought I was in love and say so easily now that I wasn't but you know what? Maybe (and most likely) I was but because it didn't last, neither did the memory of what it was; maybe it has been distorted.

 

Yes you're at an age where your hormones are all over the place and it's normal to have a crush on your best friend especially if she's a girl but again, this might be the real thing for you so this may be the girl to take a risk on. It could be an emotional rollercoaster but this is how we all start with relationship as it's all a whole new learning curve.

 

Not all failed relationships have to end badly; some don't even hurt that much and you may remain friends. You sound mature enough to talk to this girl about your feelings and if she feels the same, why not take it real slow and don't rush into anything, especially anything physical. You may have all the time in the world but if not, just enjoy the feelings you have for her and however long it lasts look at this as the first of many loves in your life.

 

It's natural to be scared and as you say you have no experience of this sort of thing so look at it this way, you will if you pursue your feelings. Unfortunately I cannot guarantee that any other time you won't feel just as scared because love can do that to you!

 

One last thing because hey, it wouldn't feel right if I didn't say it, if you do start dating don't forget to stay safe. Good luck!

 

Didn't see that last part comming :thinking: Good advice, I like his way of thinking.

February 1, 2010 - submitted by Sophia, Spain

 

Q. Hey Oracle

On the cover of Moby's album Play in the bottom left hand corner someone's holding something up - can you tell me what this is and what it's for? I've always seen it when they make movies etc but no one I've asked knows!

Thanks!

The Oracle replies:

 

It's a camera lighting meter. It's used to work out the correct exposure for the photograph. As you say, it's used in movie making too to measure light levels.

 

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February 1, 2010 - submitted by Mark, United Kingdom

 

Q. I had the pleasure of seeing the band perform at Sheffield Arena on Sunday 7 December 2008. However, I have forgotten the name of the special support guest that night. I think it was Tiesto - can you please confirm that my memory is still working OK? Thanks. Mark

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Although Tiesto is a DJ so the set-up might look the same you are mistaken with the identity of the support. Viva collaborator Jon Hopkins was first on during all the UK shows around that time.

FYI: There was a second act after Jon and on that occasion it was Eugene Francis Jnr and the Juniors.

January 29, 2010 - submitted by Deshani, United Kingdom

 

January 29, 2010 - submitted by Katie, United States of America

 

Q. Hullo dear Oracley,

 

what's up with Guy's signatures on the End of Decade certificates of authenticity? A bit tired there, eh? :)

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Ha! I know what you mean, wasn't the clearest one of the bunch was it? That said you are right in fact, Guy was a little tired that day.

 

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tired of what? digging in a mine? his signature was as if he was about to fall unconscious any minute. ridiculous and disgraceful towards the fans IMO. as someone said , some people gave enormous amounts of money for the stuff he just wrote a line for. not fair...

January 29, 2010 - submitted by Deshani, United Kingdom

 

January 29, 2010 - submitted by Katie, United States of America

 

Q. Hullo dear Oracley,

 

what's up with Guy's signatures on the End of Decade certificates of authenticity? A bit tired there, eh? :)

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Ha! I know what you mean, wasn't the clearest one of the bunch was it? That said you are right in fact, Guy was a little tired that day.

 

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tired of what? digging a mine? his signature was as if he was about to fall unconscious any minute. ridiculous and disgraceful towards the fans IMO. as someone said , some people gave enormous amounts of money for the stuff he just wrote a line for. not fair...

February 2, 2010 - submitted by Callum, United Kingdom

 

Q. Hello oracle,

This is my first Question to you and I was hoping you could answer it. My question is When will The Simpsons episode starring Coldplay be broadcast in the UK?

 

The Oracle replies:

 

It will air in May but Anchorman will let you nearer the time.

February 2, 2010 - submitted by Madyson, United States of America

 

Q. I think I am a lesbian but my parents are straight Catholics and I don't know how they would take the news. What do I do?! I don't want to break their hearts but it will drive me crazy if I keep this in any longer. I am 18 and I think they should finally know the truth. I am so scared. What should I do Oracle?!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Having been brought up a Catholic I do understand the dilemma that you face but I have to say that I think the first thing is to work out whether you KNOW you're a lesbian. It's no good just thinking and then putting yourself and your family through the mill if it turns out you're not.

So... if you are a lesbian - and for anyone who is having trouble with coming out to their parents - here's what I think. In this life we need to do as best we can whilst staying true to ourselves. Don't drive yourself crazy. You are an adult but you are also their Catholic daughter so choose how you tell them carefully. Give them time to adjust and try to have some patience during that time. I'm sure you will feel a sense of relief when the burden is lifted. It may well be fraught with new difficulties and obstacles to face but at least you won't be living a lie.

February 2, 2010 - submitted by Gabriela, Paraguay

 

Q. Hey Oracle! I guess this is kinda important because there's no going back. The thing is I'm going to the Coldplay concert in Buenos Aires. It says it starts at 7 pm, but Bat for Lashes play first?? I already bought my airplane ticket and I'll be at the apartment HOPEFULLY at 5 pm if there's no delays, do you think I'll make it? I'm super scared!!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

If there are no delays you should be fine. There are 2 bands on before Coldplay and so if you get to the venue as quickly yet safely as you can, there's no reason for you to miss it.

February 2, 2010 - submitted by Sarah, United Kingdom

 

Q. Hello, was just wondering if u could clear up an argument going on in our house at the mo, was For You ever used in a TV ad and if so which one?

Hopefully then I might get some peace and quiet! Thankyou

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Peace and quiet? Well that would depend on what you think the answer is because if you're wrong I doubt you'll get any!

Drum roll... No, For You was never used in a TV advert. Don't confuse commercials for trailers though as they are completely different.

February 2, 2010 - submitted by Gabriela, Paraguay[/color]

 

Q. Hey Oracle! I guess this is kinda important because there's no going back. The thing is I'm going to the Coldplay concert in Buenos Aires. It says it starts at 7 pm, but Bat for Lashes play first?? I already bought my airplane ticket and I'll be at the apartment HOPEFULLY at 5 pm if there's no delays, do you think I'll make it? I'm super scared!!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

If there are no delays you should be fine. There are 2 bands on before Coldplay and so if you get to the venue as quickly yet safely as you can, there's no reason for you to miss it.

 

 

The oracle made a mistake :lol:

 

In the Argentina gig, 3 NOT 2 bands are before Cp as support acts :P

tired of what? digging a mine? his signature was as if he was about to fall unconscious any minute. ridiculous and disgraceful towards the fans IMO. as someone said , some people gave enormous amounts of money for the stuff he just wrote a line for. not fair...

 

I have to agree with you. :\ I'd be pretty disappointed if all I got was some, uh, wavy line for an autograph.

and don't mean to insult Guy or anything, but why is it that bass players are most likely to have their nose up to teh sky? :stunned:

and don't mean to insult Guy or anything, but why is it that bass players are most likely to have their nose up to teh sky? :stunned:

 

:uhoh:whhhhatt?:lol:

:uhoh:whhhhatt?:lol:

 

His nose is held proudly in the air cause he is trying to sniff out the closest pub:laugh3:

I'm so glad she mentioned Brendan Bensen! Love him! :dance:

February 4, 2010 - submitted by Benjamin, United States of America

 

Q. Dear someone who thinks they know everything, have you ever been sky diving?

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

No, I am a total wuss. I have however done a 500ft indoor zip wire plus abseiling 150ft into The Abyss and a 150ft Parachute Descender. I didn't do the indoor bungee though!

February 4, 2010 - submitted by Matthew, United Kingdom

 

Q. What's a great song for inspiring me... suggest something new I'm feeling down!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I can only recommend Brendan Benson's latest album as that's the album that lifts me. I've long been a fan of Brendan's before The Raconteurs but this is one of those albums that stands alone or makes a great link to his previous solo or Raconteurs albums. Seriously, check out his back catalogue you won't be disappointed.

ALSO, what's with it being labeled as Feb. 4th? Today is definitely the 3rd...

i think it's Thursday already in the UK, Lauren:)

 

His nose is held proudly in the air cause he is trying to sniff out the closest pub:laugh3:

 

spot on, Tracey:laugh3:

i think it's Thursday already in the UK, Lauren:)

 

 

 

spot on, Tracie:laugh3:

 

So did she not answer any from today (Wednesday) then? :wtf:

Also, I kind of doubt that, because it would have only just been around midnight...well I guess she can answer at weird times if she wants. :P

:smart:

 

February 5, 2010 - submitted by Sven, Sweden

 

Q. Oracle,

 

What is the new for Roadie : My Life With Coldplay by Matt McGinn ?

 

Thank You

 

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I'll have more news about dates from the publisher soon but they told me it's all going ahead, so that's good isn't it?

February 5, 2010 - submitted by Sara, United Kingdom

 

Q. Okay, so I really like this guy that is shorter than me but has a fantastic personality. since there is some height difference, and could make it possibly awkward, should I just drop it, or go after him?

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Isn't it strange how it doesn't matter at all the other way around? It's expected that the guy will be taller but you know what? If you like this guy, who cares? Go for it, height shouldn't be an issue at all and if anyone has a problem with it, it's exactly that; their problem!

I love it when he puts those links :awesome:

I asked the Oracle questions several times. Unfortunately, He/She/It/They did not answer any of my questions.....:thinking:

February 5, 2010 - submitted by Whitney, United States of America

 

Q. Hey there, Oracle!

In the video that Anchorman posted of Chris practicing Halo on the piano for the Haiti telethon, near the end he stops playing and says what sounds like, "Cool, hi B". Was he talking about a note that he hit, or was he saying hi to an off camera Beyonce? (and are they friendly enough that he would call her B?) Thanks!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

He wasn't referring to a note "high B". Yes he does know Beyonce well enough to call her B; that's what he was saying.