Been thinking about this recently as more and more people I know are having children.

 

Personally I can't really imagine having kids. I feel really awkward around babies and toddlers. I don't like it if a friend or a family member leaves their child with me (even if it's just for a few minutes) because I'm scared that I'm gonna do something wrong that might put them in danger.

 

When someone brings their child into work/ shows pictures of their child I often feel like I have to pretend that I like babies but I just don't find them cute and I'm not really interested. I almost feel guilty for not liking them but I just can't help it. I do find many of them cute when they're a bit older though and I generally like older kids.

 

Some of my friends think this is gonna change one day and that I'll want to have children at some point but really can't see it happening.

If you only knew how much I understand you right now ....

 

I don't want to have kids. I never wanted to, since I was young. I know a lot of people think that this is terrible. But kids and me... it doesn't work. My mother goes crazy everytime I say this. Maybe I will change my mind one day, when I meet a boy with who I want to build a family. But I don't think so.

I do :)

I already get along with kids because i'm weird, by having a child I now have areason to be weird 24/7 :lol: but I'm 15 what do i know?

Yes. I love kids, I want to be an elementary teacher. :)

I want a spider monkey

^ Well said :lol:

Anyway, yeah, I would want to have kids.

For a few hours a week, I have about 30.

Been thinking about this recently as more and more people I know are having children.

 

Personally I can't really imagine having kids. I feel really awkward around babies and toddlers. I don't like it if a friend or a family member leaves their child with me (even if it's just for a few minutes) because I'm scared that I'm gonna do something wrong that might put them in danger.

 

When someone brings their child into work/ shows pictures of their child I often feel like I have to pretend that I like babies but I just don't find them cute and I'm not really interested. I almost feel guilty for not liking them but I just can't help it. I do find many of them cute when they're a bit older though and I generally like older kids.

 

Some of my friends think this is gonna change one day and that I'll want to have children at some point but really can't see it happening.

 

I feel EXACTLY the same. :thinking:

I want a spider monkey

dude I laughed so hard

 

 

 

 

Anyway, I'm not like "omg I need to have kids I want them sooo much"; but, I also don't want to one day regret not having a kid. So which one would I regret more: not having a kid and wishing that I had, or having a kid and wishing that I hadn't? I think I would regret the first option more, so yeah at some point I'll probably (try to) have one.

 

Wow, that sounds so... logical and completely lacking emotion. :|

Eh, someday.

I don't know... maybe.

 

 

At this point no... but perhaps in the future.

Eh, someday.

 

Let me know when.

Let me know when.

 

Sure. Be patient.

My calenders free. I'll google how to do it.

Let's just wait a few more years.

...bom chicka wah wah...

My calenders free. I'll google how to do it.

 

:lol: You do that!

Let's just wait a few more years.

 

Oh I see how it is.

 

:lol: You do that!

 

I did, still confused.

Not yet, I love my freedom :lol: but I love kids and I'd love to have one or two someday :blush:

Oh I see how it is.

 

Let me have a good job to feed the kids first :lips:

Not really.

Let me have a good job to feed the kids first :lips:

 

Stay home dad!

Stay home dad!

 

And you'll cook.

Deal!