It only matters if you think it matters yourself

well, honestly...when I was sitting on the toilet today I was thinking about this (this sounds so stupid but it's true)...why the hell does society put so much pressure on this thing?Love and sex and stuff....I've been living for one year in another town and everytime I came home which was not very often, my friends used to ask me first: "What about love?Is there anyone?blablablabla...." quite annoying...as if there was nothing more important...I'm not one of those who just chooses anyone to have sex with...for me it's something very special and connected with love...same as kissing...for now I just don't want to be put under pressure only because others expect me not to be a virgin anymore at the age of 21...

I wanna have sex..

 

 

 

anyone?

 

 

 

 

 

:disappointed:

^* calls mareko*

 

:wacky:

I wanna have sex..

 

 

 

anyone?

 

 

 

 

 

:disappointed:

 

whaaa me, too.

 

Or at least be in love....ahhh there is my favourite topic again...actually I felt like being in love today although I am not even in love...hahaha:wacky:

 

it's just the fact that my best friend had a date again yesterday and I don't really have dates...and I seriously wonder why, because guys really seem to be interested in me....ahh I always mess it up....

 

 

:bigcry:

I started writing some love song ish lyrics today. About a girl I liked. Oh well

 

You’re a dying star, I’m losing light,

You were out of reach, I knew all along,

But I didn’t care, I carried on,

I’m going nowhere; you’ve got me now,

^there is a poets thread on the board, check on lounge section...

I don't even want to have sex, I just want to be with this girl I really like but can't be with

I only wish I liked someone currently...

I don't even want to have sex, I just want to be with this girl I really like but can't be with

 

I know this feeling well. Why can't you be with her? I guess she's taken now.

I only wish I liked someone currently...

 

me too actually!

 

But i still want to have sex too. Not at the moment but you know..like later tonigh or something

 

 

:idea2:

She's not in the country, due to uni

I just wish I wasn't in love atm. It's a WONDERFUL feeling, but now I just ... don't want to ..

Nothing wrong with keeping you virginity until your marriage, just in this day and age it's rare

I know someone who's constantly saying he won't have sex until he's married. I wonder how true is that. He's very religious but the way he's telling this stuff ...

Somepeople might lie, in saying they are virgins, but in fact they are far from virgins

Why wait till marriage? I'm not saying be a slag, clearly, but it just makes no sense to wait untill marriage

mm i dunno why people still thinks that sex is to have sex and do it.. there are more things than that on sex... :uhoh:

 

if not check Freud studies about sex.... :thinking:

It's funny that some people who are still virgins talk about sex as if they were sex masters

It's funny that some people who are still virgins talk about sex as if they were sex masters

 

 

well, the ones in need are the sex masters :cool3:

hahaha...actually sex masters is a nice expression..:cool3:

Somepeople might lie, in saying they are virgins, but in fact they are far from virgins

yeah ... but i'm not sue about that specific guy. I was there when he learnt what position 69 meant ... and other pervy stuff like that. i doubt he has a girlfriend, but i haven't seen him for a while.

 

Why wait till marriage? I'm not saying be a slag, clearly, but it just makes no sense to wait untill marriage

it makes sense for those who want to make it special (by following their beliefs) I guess ...

 

It's funny that some people who are still virgins talk about sex as if they were sex masters

heh.

You can make it special with someone without marrying them

yeah, i know. but some think this is the ultimate step/action to show they really love their partner.

That should be marriage though, sex is a natural act between humans and intentionally not doing it for the sake of "making it special" is just going to lead to a massively disappointing thing when they get round to it