The SEX thread

[Prince Myshkin]

People generally aren't aware of it. I'm sure my friend is convinced that she loves the guy.

 

Have you told her she should just break up with him? Hearing it from someone else may make the decision easier.

[Petit Prince]

Have you told her she should just break up with him? Hearing it from someone else may make the decision easier.

 

Yes, I've told her a few times. She always tells me that she doesn't wanna leave him because she loves him [even though she told me a few times that she wants to break up with him]. She left her ex-partner for similar reasons and regretted it later and she says she doesn't wanna make the same mistake again...

[Prince Myshkin]

Yes, I've told her a few times. She always tells me that she doesn't wanna leave him because she loves him [even though she told me a few times that she wants to break up with him]. She left her ex-partner for similar reasons and regretted it later and she says she doesn't wanna make the same mistake again...

 

That's depressing. Gonna take either a lot of mental strength on her part or a lot of ****ish behaviour from her partner, otherwise she'll be stuck. Each way it won't be cool.

[djibou]

ok if you say so ;)

 

I do say so as well.

 

Like I said, I get the feeling she gets a bit pissed off/impatient because directly stimulating it makes it mores sensitive (A dick can't wrap itself around a clitoris) and orgasms can almost happen by accident, I think when a girl gets past the stage where she's definitely going to cum nomatter what and you slow down it really just ruins everything- I guess the skill would be knowing exactly when to slow down. Well I don't know, I assume so, when I know I'm about to and the girl slows the pace it's like a train wreck in my shlong (in a bad way) and not only is it a weak orgasm but it can even hurt. This is when the girl gets one hell of a cummy cock-slapping.

 

Too far?! GTFO

 

Hahaa okay yeah, well then I guess you should leave that kind of long lasting and strong orgasms to girls. I guess that being a girl, you know more about girl orgasms and how things feel for you when you know what it's like.

 

 

Where was I? Oh yeah, maybe I don't have the patience to build one for like 40mins, I can happily go full tilt at eating out for that time, but no, girls get instantly more excited when getting oral in comparison with penetration, and I can't help but continue that. Oddly I'd stand a better chance with just fingering and kissing, but those dark days are long in the past.

 

 

 

Thank you! It's great because I think if a girl loves what you do in bed you can treat her like shit and get away with it. :nice:

 

Not that you should :anxious: But joking aside, this is unfortunately sometimes true. I knew a guy (Wasn't necessarily a 'friend' by the way) who had a really attractive girlfriend (With GIGANTIC tits I have to add) and he met this girl through her friend (And although she's a good friend of mine, unfortunately I have to add that she wasn't so attractive) and according to her he was really good in bed and had a huge dick. Well, he treated his girlfriend like total shit in front of people. She was a really nice girl when he wasn't around, her humour was oddly funny, but when he was there he'd look at her like WTF and tell her to shutup (Sometimes even literally "shut up now") which of course made everyone really awkward so she ended up being really quiet.

 

When the guy was drunk once, in a quiet snooker hall in the DAYTIME when nobody else was drinking (Have I painted a picture of how much of a douche he is?) he was bragging about how she gets pissed off at him all the time and he laughs in her face, and she'd never leave him because of his big dick, to which me and my friends just stood there looking at him laughing hysterically to himself. :wtf: Unfortunately it's true, he's got no redeeming factors except a big cock (Oh he's also fat) but they are STILL together and my friend (the first girl I mentioned) doesn't know why she keeps putting herself through it, well we all know why, but all the shit she puts up for to get her whistle wet? She must really enjoy sex.

 

But yes the moral of the story is: if you meet a pretty and nice girl with a total douche of a boyfriend and you can't understand why she'd pick him, unfortunately this might explain it. And feel lucky for the girl in some ways but in most ways not.

 

And it might work the other way round when meeting good looking confident guys that have girlfriends who are quiet and look a bit ugly and whore-ish.

 

(I am being silly of course I don't judge people's sex lives upon meeting them).

 

Even though you really enjoy sex (I know I do, I can't get enough), I wouldn't put up with that kind of douche just for it.

 

Have you told her she should just break up with him? Hearing it from someone else may make the decision easier.

 

That usually is true, but when people are emotionally dependant, they couldn't care less. I've been telling that friend of mine (and I happened to have a conversation of the kind with him last night) to break up with his gf who obviously and clearly doesn't love him anymore. All he does is agreeing with what I say and then not acting.

[Petit Prince]

That's depressing. Gonna take either a lot of mental strength on her part or a lot of ****ish behaviour from her partner, otherwise she'll be stuck. Each way it won't be cool.

 

True! I don't think she'll leave him unless he does something really stupid and I kind of hope he will because it can't go on like this.

[a_face_of_light]

It's funny how Reiley and Greg have now got 3 lesbian fangirls.

[Prince Myshkin]

It's funny how Reiley and Greg have now got 3 lesbian fangirls.

 

:cool:

[djibou]

They deserve them :wacky:

[Mojo Pin]

I just read the 3 last pages and you fuckers don't ever say i'm too explicit again after what you posted haha :wacky:

[djibou]

You used a bad word.

And you're too explicit :snobby:

[Mojo Pin]

*leaves thread*

 

:disappointed:

[a_face_of_light]

:cool:

 

:kiss:

[Prince Myshkin]

:kiss:

 

Boioioioing!

Jk :lol:

[a_face_of_light]

Boioioioing!

Jk :lol:

 

Tmi:P.

[Reilly]

Hahaa okay yeah, well then I guess you should leave that kind of long lasting and strong orgasms to girls. I guess that being a girl, you know more about girl orgasms and how things feel for you when you know what it's like.

 

But I don't wanna leave it for girls :bigcry: Then you can help me, as I was saying I assumed that there's a point for girls where as far as orgasms go, there's no turning back, if she seems to be getting really excited and the ear clamping and hair pulling steps up a notch, do I slow it down? Because that's when I think "OK she's going to cum, she'll be pissed off if you change pace" because I know I do. It has always been in the back of my mind that it may not be the case, during intercourse it's just so much easier to tell if you are taking things too quickly, but during oral I have no idea because once you start stimulating the clit she's instantly going nuts, there's no idea of how to build it up. The only way I can think of is to slowly lick her out at the start, but I just can't, once you get anywhere near the clitoris her excitement gets you excited, and you just get carried away.

 

So what I'm asking is, when a girl appears to be climaxing, is it too late to slow it down? Or is she definitely going to cum and by slowing it down you will ruin her orgasm?

 

Even though you really enjoy sex (I know I do, I can't get enough), I wouldn't put up with that kind of douche just for it.

 

Just for sex, right now I'm seeing a girl that in ways I can't stand her, but I wouldn't cross that over into a relationship (We only see eachother sporadically). So I would put up with a douche for that, but a relationship? Just for good sex? I don't understand.

[AusKT]

Catch-up time:

 

Porn - have watched it. Can't say I've ever watched guy on guy though.

 

Threesome - never have, wouldn't completely rule it out if it was a safe and comfortable situation.

Although honestly, I don't think I could really go through with it. If it were my (non existent at the moment) boyfriend and another woman - well I think I'd have issues with that. Think I'd feel a bit vulnerable if it were two guys. Maybe it would just need to be one of those drunken things with friends that you trust, but don't actually see that often! Because yeah, that would be pretty awkward.

 

Sex show - No, I can honestly say that I am 99.99% sure I would never have sex in front of people.

 

So... the other night one of my old flings came over. I believe I mentioned her before. She's the one that came off as way too sexual and we felt uncomfortable at the pace of the entire thing. We have remained friends since then. She came over the other night and let's just say one thing led to another.

 

Im not gonna lie... it was great but I dont wanna be going back and forth with her. I am so confused. She's really great but at times she seems way too wild for my taste. By wild I mean she has several stories about taking her top off.

It sounds to me like you have already made a decision. :)

I really want to lose my virginity...there i said it.

i'll be 16 this december

Wait. I realise that to you it's easy for other people to say that, but really, you are still quite young. It sounds like you know that it is a pretty big step. It's true, you can only lose your virginity once, and it is special. Because you chose who you are going to give it to, and once it's done, it's done.

 

When I was 17 I had an 18 year old friend who hated the fact that she was the last person in our group of friends to lose her virginity. So one night at a night club she went home with some guy, basically just to get it over and done with. She regretted it later.

I don't think you necessarily have to be in a serious, loving, committed relationship; but I think you would be able to live with it better if you could look back on it and not feel sad/ashamed/disgusted about the situation or who it was with.

 

So, if people could have the time over, would you change the circumstances in which you lost your virginity?

For me, I guess not. It was with my ex - but we were together for 9 1/2 years. I guess unless you lose your virginity to the person you end up spending the rest of your life with - and that unfortunately doesn't happen very often - then it's bound to have been with an ex and that relationship obviously ended for a reason.

...yeah....:uhoh:

 

But if you do decide to have sex, try to remember that men also urinate from their penis and it's prolly best to keep it out of your mouth. :|

 

haha

:laugh3:

i lost mine when i was 21 to my now ex who cheated on me about 10 months ago and who i never talk to ever now nor do i care to.

Bitch. :angry:

You are definitely better off without her.

Oral sex = amazing :blank:

 

giving it to a guy though is eeeeh.

Oral - Not a big fan on giving, love receiving. :mellow:

Yeah, unfair I know. I have terrible, ummm, gagging reflexes - not sexy.

I guess the way the limited porn I've seen is portrayed, is that it's just expected for the girl to give the guy a blowjob - but not so much for a guy to go down on a girl.

But it doesn't appear to be that way in real life. Especially if it's someone you care about.

Now for a new question: Why is daytime sweat so disgusting but sex sweat so erotic?

Because it's produced during sex!

Really, anything produced during sex is sexy.

That said, I feel extremely lucky for the girls who had sex with you, guys.

+1!

I think I'd probably only try a threesome with Greg and Reilly. :sneaky:

Masturbation. I've always come up thinking that it was a guys thing, not that girls don't do it too but it just appears that more guys tend to then girls . Do you think that guys masturbate more than girls ? or is it a bit more half and half

I've always been under the assumption that more guys masturbate more often than girls. Just look at American Pie. :P

Unless it's just that female masturbation is more taboo? :thinking:

So what I'm asking is, when a girl appears to be climaxing, is it too late to slow it down? Or is she definitely going to cum and by slowing it down you will ruin her orgasm?

Obviously every woman is different, but I would have to say yes.

I guess your best bet would be to discuss this sort of situation with your partner.

 

Right, well that's my 2 cents worth - night all!

[Reilly]

So, if people could have the time over, would you change the circumstances in which you lost your virginity?

 

No because I had sex.

 

Haha but really, the '1st time' thing isn't an issue for a guy whatsoever, as long as you've eventually had great sex it doesn't really matter. Personally my 1st time was fine though.

 

Because it's produced during sex!

Really, anything produced during sex is sexy.

 

Not if she's on her period.

 

Obviously every woman is different, but I would have to say yes.

I guess your best bet would be to discuss this sort of situation with your partner.

 

Thank you, so my suspicions are correct. Oh I don't have a partner, and oddly even though sex is an important thing to me, never really discussed it an awful lot with ex's, you just have sex and discover what a person likes.

[illuvcoldplay]

Quote:

Because it's produced during sex!

Really, anything produced during sex is sexy.

 

Not if she's on her period

 

disturbingly some people are actually into breaking red lights and say its the best sex ever. Read that on this discussion thread in some forum a while back... :confused:

[i'maveryneatMonster.']

You learn lots thanks to this thread.

[Reilly]

disturbingly some people are actually into breaking red lights and say its the best sex ever. Read that on this discussion thread in some forum a while back... :confused:

 

Do you mean breaking as in popping the cherry? Some guys like being a girls first time, it's normally one of those pathetic macho things, inferiority complex and that. Personally I don't think a girls vagina is significantly tighter or anything, it's just that she hasn't been deeply penetrated.

 

Or do you just mean they love fucking a girl when blood is shooting out of her vagina? Because that's just fucking weird. One of my ex's used to want to fuck on her period, but I don't think it was because she's fucked up and wanted to bleed while being screwed, she generally just want to have sex all the time, and when she told me that you can have sex while on your period and not necessarily bleed I thought she was just trying to convince me, apparently she was telling the truth.

 

Regardless, I still wouldn't take that chance, it's freaking gross.

[ivet]

having sex on your period is disgusting.

[Crests]

The most sexually active I've been is yelling "penis" with a couple of my friends while running. :charming:

 

We're so clever, I know.

[Technicolor Sparks]

having sex on your period is disgusting.

 

:sick:

 

The most sexually active I've been is yelling "penis" with a couple of my friends while running. :charming:

 

HAHAHAHAHA! :laugh3:

 

..same here. :P

[Reilly]

having sex on your period is disgusting.

 

I know someone who just has anal when she's on her period, I told her that's still kinda gross. She had a point though because I couldn't really specify why I think it's gross, but I just don't wanna be anywhere near those regions during that time.

[Technicolor Sparks]

I know someone who just has anal when she's on her period, I told her that's still kinda gross. She had a point though because I couldn't really specify why I think it's gross, but I just don't wanna be anywhere near those regions during that time.

 

 

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That's awkward.