Reilly Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Ive been happy with my girl for 4 and a half months now, but when youre a single guy, and you have less confidence then some, its really, really hard to walk up to a girl and just start talking. I hate hearing girls saying shit like "Did you get a guy last night?" or "I dont think I'll ever find a man!" And when it comes down to it, they give the most subtle hints to liking a guy ever. For a girl to agree to go out with the guy, he has to: -Make her laugh, quite consistently (DIFFICULT) -Be incredibly polite -Be quite good looking* -Know (And get on well with) her friends, and family -Pay for her everything in every situation Theres a lot to consider. And *For the goodlooking thing, too many times you hear a girl saying "Damn hes so fine I could just eat him up! If I could get him alone..." and once again, when it comes down to it, they play it slow and defensively. For a guy to agree to go out with the girl, she has to: -Sit there and look pretty. And its so damn true, personality of course comes into it but a girl can have any kind of personality at all and the guy will feel "Lucky to have her". I just met (Saw) this girl that I went on one date to a club with once, and remembered how much of a bitch she was that one night. And she was relatively, well ok she was very good looking and I was feeling happy enough to be with her that night, even though she didnt show much sign of a huge personality. Then she started really getting bitchy, and we were sitting at a booth with friends laughing, relaxed, I was buying her drinks, and out of absolutely nowhere she just picked the empty glass off her table and said "Hello, EMPTY". Everyone just kinda stopped and I said "Maybe I should piss in it and you can drink that" and after her over-dramatic gasping and dis-belief, she finally left the table. Then, I wondered, what made me feel lucky being with her? I was paying for her, making all the conversation, bending over backwards to make her happy, and she was just acting normal. She was good looking but not hugely above my usual target-point, she really wasnt worth it. So, where I come from its pretty rare to find a girl who will make the first move, do you make the first move or does the opposite sex HAVE to do it, all the time? (Question to both males and females). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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