August 21, 201312 yr Anybody can do whatever they want as long as they don't break any laws. The fact that many of us would not go that far (going to Chris's house, rang the bell, etc.) does not mean that what this girl did has to be strongly condemned. I understand that the boys privacy has to be respected but after all they are aware that they are famous and it is absolutely NORMAL that a crazy fan appears at your front door or someone approaches in a restaurant just to say hello. In my humble opinion, I think many are making a big deal of this. Totally agree with you. And yeah I'm sorry I'm trying not to make a big deal of this, I'm just really disappointed that the people of the forum (not everyone of course) acted this way. :(
August 21, 201312 yr I understand that the boys privacy has to be respected but after all they are aware that they are famous and it is absolutely NORMAL that a crazy fan appears at your front door or someone approaches in a restaurant just to say hello. I think those 2 situations you mentioned are quite different though. A restaurant is somewhat of a public place, you're surrounded by people, strangers, therefore they're aware that there's always a risk that someone will notice them and say hello, whereas their home is definitely 100% private, which means they shouldn't have to worry about a fan approaching them here.
August 21, 201312 yr I don't want to be a nervous nelly, but you guys should google "Rebecca Schaeffer."
August 21, 201312 yr I don't even get the link, this girl wasn't stalking him for 3 years... And she WASN'T A PSYCHO :|
August 21, 201312 yr Request: stop discussing if this thread should be closed or not. It will not be closed for the time being. Posts discussing this matter have been/will be removed.
August 21, 201312 yr Okay.... I guess I give up. The OP is never coming back and I don't see the point of continuing to talk about this but whatever. :(
August 22, 201312 yr Author stop posting in this thread for fucks sake you have all made me feel like shit just for trying to give him the letter thank you goodbye and most importantly fuck off xx
August 22, 201312 yr I think this thread shows how sometimes normal people are worst that 16 years old fangirls
August 22, 201312 yr You know, maybe I am in the minority here, but think about if Chris came down to greet her and sign a few things? Would we all be reacting this way? It's something to think about. It's not something to think about because he doesn't. He doesn't do that with anyone going to the house. stop posting in this thread for fucks sake you have all made me feel like shit just for trying to give him the letter thank you goodbye and most importantly fuck off xx While I feel some may have gone too far in their criticism, if you feel like shit I hope you are reflective enough to realise that this may be in fact because you are now aware that what you did (if you did, indeed, do it) was a bit inappropriate, instead of trying to play the victim and blame everyone else. There is no shame in owning that you did something wrong, I myself have said many things in my more avid fan days that were probably inappropriate and learned from it. At the very least I hope you have learned from this thread. Whoa, I actually posted something like that in the face of a flippant remark? Guess I'm just reminded a tad of my old self here
August 22, 201312 yr Request: stop discussing if this thread should be closed or not. It will not be closed for the time being. Posts discussing this matter have been/will be removed. I don't see the harm in discussing this issue. I think as long as posters aren't being rude or offensive, all posts should be allowed. The closure of this thread was a relevant point of discussion and we've talked about closing threads in the past. When did this become a new rule?
August 22, 201312 yr I don't see the harm in discussing this issue. I think as long as posters aren't being rude or offensive, all posts should be allowed. The closure of this thread was a relevant point of discussion and we've talked about closing threads in the past. When did this become a new rule? It isn't a rule, it was a request. The entire thread was taken over by the discussion if the thread should be closed or not and it wasn't adding anything.
August 22, 201312 yr It isn't a rule, it was a request. The entire thread was taken over by the discussion if the thread should be closed or not and it wasn't adding anything. there were far worse off topics in other threads that didn't add anything to the thread itself and yet comments were not deleted The discussion, I think, was essential and could provide inspiration for a new rule regarding the closure of threads
August 23, 201312 yr Author It's not something to think about because he doesn't. He doesn't do that with anyone going to the house. While I feel some may have gone too far in their criticism, if you feel like shit I hope you are reflective enough to realise that this may be in fact because you are now aware that what you did (if you did, indeed, do it) was a bit inappropriate, instead of trying to play the victim and blame everyone else. There is no shame in owning that you did something wrong, I myself have said many things in my more avid fan days that were probably inappropriate and learned from it. At the very least I hope you have learned from this thread. Whoa, I actually posted something like that in the face of a flippant remark? Guess I'm just reminded a tad of my old self here the only thing i've learned is how mean people are on here lol
August 23, 201312 yr :( Looks like we failed at making you understand our point, then. :disappointed:
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