im Nige ... i'm not gay, i'm totally straight

i have no problem with people being gay ... however it can make me feel uncomfortable if i see people like that especially men as i cannot comprehend the idea of fancying another male ... i think its just because i don't have any mates who are gay so i'm not used to it

Hi I'm fiona and I'm straight :idea2:

I have gay, bi and straight friends and everyone's just great :idea2:

And THAT rhymes!! :P

IT does :idea2: :dizzy2:

:wideeyed:

This is a thread for gay and bi,

So come on in and just say, "Hi"!! :D

I'm straight and proud, haha im going to start a straight pride parade. jk jk

O.K. - but try to make it rhyme, man! :P

im sorry i lost my man in japan,

 

was that good enough? lol

No!! Something like: "I'm straight and I'm proud - so I'm gonna say it loud"!! :P

Because I'm afraid of what they'll say. It's just...I had quite a hard time admitting it to myself' date=' and I've just got to get used to idea myself. I'm not especially afraid of telling people at school, because I believe most people will accept me as I am..teh only person I really dread to tell is my father. It's just...I've started the process of telling friends. I told Marieke, I told you, I told Rianne, Susanne from my history class who's gay too, Chris (Rianne's ex :stunned:) who's gay too (:shocked:) and Jacob and my mum..so just getting on the road...[/quote']

 

Irene. You are on the right road. :) Take the coming out process at your own speed. You have made a wise decision to start with friends first. You'll need them to serve as your support and love. Then slowly and surely tell your parents. You'll know when the time is right. You have already shown strength by accepting yourself. You'll always have people to support you :)

Hi I'm fiona and I'm straight :idea2:

I have gay, bi and straight friends and everyone's just great :idea2:

 

Thanks for chiming in Fiona. Glad to know where you stand on this issue :)

And did ya dig the rhyme, too?? :P

Nice work Mark. :lol:

Thread seems to be going well, anyway. It's being visited in your absence.

As I've noticed. :)

:)

I haven't posted here in forever and a day.. but all I have to say is:

 

Being gay = constant emotional pain and thoughts of suicide for me. Someday I hope I'll be able to look at it differently.. but with the way society pictures gay people it probably wont be very soon. Not all gay people act like Jack on will and grace and walk around in heels with make up on, and it really pisses me off when I see people like that. It just makes the stereotype that much more believable.

I don't really know what to say to you...but we all have hard times in this life and everyone hits rock bottom at some point. Anyway my point is suicide is not the way out and I hope you see it differently soon too :)

 

Btw, I love that show! :D But Will isn't much like Jack.. he's a bit more masculine though ;) and I don't think society pictures gay people like you just described above..and on that show they even show guys who don't wear make-up and act like Jack at all and are gay..

 

Anyway, I'm straight and I have no problem with anyone being gay/bi/or lesbian and I had been hit on by females before though and no I don't get grossed out..it just makes me feel like I can take over the world or anyone and having anything I want or making them do something I don't think they should do :smug: :D

 

So I guess my gay cpying friend would be Aaron then :D :P

hi im someone and i dont like labels.

 

hey look there's some horse stables.

I haven't posted here in forever and a day.. but all I have to say is:

 

Being gay = constant emotional pain and thoughts of suicide for me. Someday I hope I'll be able to look at it differently.. but with the way society pictures gay people it probably wont be very soon. Not all gay people act like Jack on will and grace and walk around in heels with make up on, and it really pisses me off when I see people like that. It just makes the stereotype that much more believable.

I don't really know what to say to you...but we all have hard times in this life and everyone hits rock bottom at some point. Anyway my point is suicide is not the way out and I hope you see it differently soon too :)

 

Btw, I love that show! :D But Will isn't much like Jack.. he's a bit more masculine though ;) and I don't think society pictures gay people like you just described above..and on that show they even show guys who don't wear make-up and act like Jack at all and are gay..

 

Anyway, I'm straight and I have no problem with anyone being gay/bi/or lesbian and I had been hit on by females before though and no I don't get grossed out..it just makes me feel like I can take over the world or anyone and having anything I want or making them do something I don't think they should do :smug: :D

 

So I guess my gay cpying friend would be Aaron then :D :P

 

 

Nice insight Josceline. Thanks for sharing. And thanks for the support :D

im Nige ... i'm not gay, i'm totally straight

i have no problem with people being gay ... however it can make me feel uncomfortable if i see people like that especially men as i cannot comprehend the idea of fancying another male ... i think its just because i don't have any mates who are gay so i'm not used to it

 

Nige, I forgot to say thanks for supporting the thread yesterday :) I understand why you would be uncomfortable. You have an open mind about this issue though which is refreshing to see :)

hi im someone and i dont like labels.

 

hey look there's some horse stables.

 

 

:lol: this made me laugh..

....i think we should all be bi curious and celebrate with a big coldplaying orgy! :wink3:

:lol: :lol: Kinky so early in the morning eh :wink3:

lol i get it when i want it...i want it now.....

 

i want you nooooooooowwwwwwwww i want you noooooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwww give me your heart and your soouuuuul