djibou Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Ivet, my girlfriend, who lives 1600 miles away from me, was supposed to come visit me this saturday. The plane ticket is bought, and the tickets to some shows were bought as well. Her parents won't let her go. No matter what. I haven't seen her since January 3rd. I was practically living for this moment. I can't breath anymore. I need some love and support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Violet Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Oh, you guys. :sad: I'm so sorry for the both of you. I wish there was something I could do to fix it. It's not fair for something like this to happen. :hug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megalomania Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 I'm so sorry, what a sad thing to hear at the last minute. :hug: If there was anything we could do for you guys, we would help. :hug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 But she's a big kid. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djibou Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 Her parents do not give a fuck, nor do they care about her happiness, apparently. The only person who could drive her to the airport is her dad. And obviously, that's not happening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reilly Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Dijiboo that sucks, really, anyone who goes through a long distance relationship knows how much you look forward to seeing someone. If there are reasons for it not happening you can at least understand, but if there are no reasons, I can't imagine how pissed I'd be. Did they know about it before and suddenly change their minds? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh42 Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 She can't get a ride from a friend or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djibou Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 It went from 'You should go visit Marie this summer' (said by her mom when I was over there) to 'you're not fucking going anywhere' (said by her dad tonight). Edit: no, all of them are working or not that close to Ivet. It's a two hours drive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reilly Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 So they pretty much just changed their mind. That must be really frustrating, sorry MP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lore Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Oh Marie that sucks :( I really hope they change their mind and let Ivet go to Canada! I mean, she got a job and paid for the flights, she's not a little girl. Hope you girls can see each other soon :hug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djibou Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 They did that the first time, when I was going over there. They said yes, I had bought my plane ticket, and then out of the blue, they changed their minds. They only changed their minds again the day before my plane left. And under the circumstances, they won't change their minds this time. It won't happen. thanks Reilly. The next time I would see her is this winter in about 5 months. Just watch me. Even if her parents say no, we'll work around it, I'll stay at her dorms or smth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i'maveryneatMonster.' Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mojo Pin Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Mariebel! I'm so sorry! :( Is there any way to fix that? =/ *sends some love and support to Mariebel* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Italian Plastic Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 oh man :( that sucks heaps. can't imagine what it would be like if my parents wouldnt let me go see rebecka :bigcry: (they don't know about rebecka :uhoh: ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djibou Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 I don't think there's any way to fix it :/ yeah well her parents don't know we're a couple (although we think they have doubts). but yeah it's pretty hard. Ivet had bought her ticket (670 dollars gone...) and I had some concert tickets, including sufjan in nyc, which are too late to sell now. But that's just the money side, it just that longing of finally being with the one you love... and then having your hope and excitement completely crushed. Bleh This is a very emo thread. I'm sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i'maveryneatMonster.' Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Fuck it, tell Ivet to go anyway and find any possible way. You guys need to be together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Italian Plastic Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 oh fuck she's missing out on you AND sufjan???? :( :( :( :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djibou Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 Fuck it, tell Ivet to go anyway and find any possible way. You guys need to be together. omgAlexa :hug: I told her this. But her dad is gonna kill her. You don't wanna mess with her dad, believe me. oh fuck she's missing out on you AND sufjan???? :( :( :( :( yeah ikr. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoryABjerre Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Ivet, my girlfriend, who lives 1600 miles away from me, was supposed to come visit me this saturday. The plane ticket is bought, and the tickets to some shows were bought as well. Her parents won't let her go. No matter what. I haven't seen her since January 3rd. I was practically living for this moment. I can't breath anymore. I need some love and support. :hug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i'maveryneatMonster.' Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 omgAlexa :hug: I told her this. But her dad is gonna kill her. You don't wanna mess with her dad, believe me. :( </3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 i'm so sorry for that marie and ivet :( it sucks they don't let her go visit you for no reason more if she's worked for it and they know she got the tickets bought and everything. hopefully they'll change mind and let her go visit you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Magpie Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Oh guys. :( :hug: I think Ivet should still try and find a way to go to see you this Saturday. I'm sure there's some organised public transport from the airport to the city so I don't see the transport as such big a problem. I understand how frustrating it is when parents change their minds so quickly and you're still so young you don't have much choice other than obey them. But she's worked hard to be able to buy the flight ticket and her parents should respect her wishes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stefan8 Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Ughhhh. I wish I just had two really big arms and hands so I could pick the both of you up and place you together somewhere where nobody would bother you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudy_o Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 That sucks, Marie :sad: We shall try begging her parents to let her go :\ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilovechriss Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Oh, that is terrible, feel really sorry for both of you.. :( I hope you will see eachother very soon :nice: Good luck! :love: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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